Not that I do it's just I think my girlfriends of 1 year does , and I want to try and see what will be the best for her with out asking..

Well , I've been with my girl friend for a little over a year now , and I love her with everything I have and more , but I feel like I'm the only one trying , for example I bend over backwards for her and do anything I can for her , but she just doesn't do the same.. is it just me.. or am I really the only one trying..

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Originally Posted by Hers9-11-11

Not that I do it's just I think my girlfriends of 1 year does , and I want to try and see what will be the best for her with out asking..

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Hard to say.

What is your perspective on the term "bending over backwards". What is it that you're doing but she isn't? Maybe you're just too needy? If you're not happy why are you still with her?

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Originally Posted by Hers9-11-11

Well , I've been with my girl friend for a little over a year now , and I love her with everything I have and more , but I feel like I'm the only one trying , for example I bend over backwards for her and do anything I can for her , but she just doesn't do the same..is it just me..or am I really the only one trying..?

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How will you know she does without asking? You, or us, can't tell if she 'loves' someone else unless she says so. Given your other posts, looks like you need to find someone else. Why are you letting this girl stress you out and make you feel miserable. Have some dignity.

Moderator please delete this post. Double posted because of merge. Edited my above one.

Thank you.