My ex is trying to contact me and sometimes I do... but he is trying to talk to me like I am his friend and I find it really awkward... I want him back... but is being friends with him going to help this or rather spoil everything...

If all he wants is friendship from you, that is what he wants.
If you want more than that from him, you maybe out of luck. Why is he your ex? Who did the breaking up?

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

If all he wants is friendship from you, that is what he wants.
If you want more than that from him, you maybe out of luck. Why is he your ex? Who did the breaking up?

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He did... but he is not sure whether to let go of me or not...

So what is the problem. If he is not sure if he wants to let you go and you still like him, why are you not talking to him?
You said before he just wants friendship and you want more. So is that what he wants or not?
Why did he break up with you? Has that problem been resolved?

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

So what is the problem.? If he is not sure if he wants to let you go and you still like him, why are you not talking to him?
You said before he just wants friendship and you want more. So is that what he wants or not?
Why did he break up with you? has that problem been resolved?

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He told me he wants some time alone... to forget his ex girlfren... so I feel really awkward whenever he tries to talk to me like I am his buddy... or talk about other girls... I don't want to be rude to him... but I want him to understand that I really want him and I want the people we use to be again...

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Originally Posted by tianame

he told me he wants some time alone ... to forget his ex girlfren ..... so i feel really awkward whenever he tries to talk to me like i am his buddy.... or talk about other girls.... i don't wanna be rude to him... but i want him to understand dat i really want him and i want the people we use to be again...

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So I want him to miss me you know like not take me for granted... so whether this frenship is going to draw us close to each other again or whether I should just ignore him till he finally makes a move and say he wants me back... our old relationship..

You don't want to go back to your old relationship, he dumped you remember?
I think he is just keeping you around "just in case"
You need to just leave him a lone. Move on. If it is hard talking to him, stop doing that.
Tell him he can call you when he has made up his mind what he wants. In the meantime, you get a life that does not revolve around him.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

You don't want to go back to your old relationship, he dumped you remember?
I think he is just keeping you around "just in case"
You need to just leave him a lone. Move on. If it is hard talking to him, stop doing that.
Tell him he can call you when he has made up his mind what he wants. In the meantime, you get a life that does not revolve around him.

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I love him and I am willing to forget everything...
So as you said like staying away from him for now will be better right ?

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Originally Posted by tianame

i love him and i am willing to forget everything.............
so as you said like staying away from him for now will be better right ?

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Yes, that's what Homegirl said, and I agree (if it matters).

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Originally Posted by tianame

i love him and i am willing to forget everything.............
so as you said like staying away from him for now will be better right ?

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Stay away from him. You know when some one dumps you and takes you for granted, you don't just forgive them because you love them. You wise up and love and respect yourself.
He obviously does not love you, so don't make a fool of yourself over this guy.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

Stay away from him. You know when some one dumps you and takes you for granted, you don't just forgive them because you love them. You wise up and love and respect yourself.
He obviously does not love you, so don't make a fool of yourself over this guy.

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Well... okay... he loved me.. I know and I can tell... wev been together for a year now... but I guess il leave him alone... nw