Ask Me Help Desk - How to win my ex back

Me and my ex went out for 7 month then I broke up with him because I had so many problems' he agreed with the break up. After a month we all started seeing other people but not serious. After a no period contract. We become friends and started talk pretty much every day. I still have feeling for him, I feel like he still does too from the way he talks to me, and get worried he I didn't reply his text. He said am different to other girls and am special. But now his trying to get into a reletioship, he tells me about it. Do I have a chance to win him back? What should I do? Help please!

U get a wake up call when you realise he is about to have a relationship? Girl u better treat your man right before another woman does... well just talk to him about it n don't rush... ask him if he is over you... if not you can always get him back...

If you still have strong feelings for him, then it may be too soon to try to be friends. He apparently doesn't feel the same as you do or he is trying to use games to find out how you feel about him.

Sit down with him and discuss the matter. No game playing. Let him know you still have feelings for him. It is being unfair to yourself to try to be his friend while he tries to 'get with' another female. Stop talking to him again until you are able to be just friends and not want anything more. Trying to be his friend is only creating confusion in your mind, heart and life.

You can't 'win him back.' He isn't a game or toy. He has his own mind and heart. If he came back on his own, there might be a chance if you both have let the past go and are ready to start over from the beginning. Frankly, you dated for such a short time, he may think of you as a special friend instead of a girlfriend.

Have you taken care of your past problems that caused you to break up with him? If not, then don't try getting back together with him. Take care of yourself so that you can be strong and healthy partner in your next relationship whether it is with him or someone else.

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Originally Posted by Cat1864

If you still have strong feelings for him, then it may be too soon to try to be friends. He apparently doesn't feel the same as you do or he is trying to use games to find out how you feel about him.

Sit down with him and discuss the matter. No game playing. Let him know you still have feelings for him. It is being unfair to yourself to try to be his friend while he tries to 'get with' another female. Stop talking to him again until you are able to be just friends and not want anything more. Trying to be his friend is only creating confusion in your mind, heart and life.

You can't 'win him back.' He isn't a game or toy. He has his own mind and heart. If he came back on his own, there might be a chance if you both have let the past go and are ready to start over from the beginning. Frankly, you dated for such a short time, he may think of you as a special friend instead of a girlfriend.

Have you taken care of your past problems that caused you to break up with him? If not, then don't try getting back together with him. Take care of yourself so that you can be strong and healthy partner in your next relationship whether it is with him or someone else.

You are right thank you. I will try follow this.

He is trying to get in to a relationship with someone else. That sort of means, he's about to be taken.
Get over it and leave him alone.