Ask Me Help Desk - Pregnancy and pre ejaculate

I had sex twice during the week I conceived and now I am 23 weeks pregnant. Unfortunately this was with two different partners and that is very rare for me considering I've been with the same guy for over a year now. (we broke up long story) anyway I am very worried that the baby may not be my boyfriend's. The (other) guy definitely pulled out before ejaculating. Two days later my boyfriend and I had sex and he definitely did NOT pull out. Because the dates are SO close it worries me on who the father is. I have heard so many different stories on the chances of becoming preganant from pre ejaculation. And also I had just recently stopped taking birth control before getting pregnant. I was told that this would completely screw up my ovulation timing and make it near impossible to calculate my actual conception date because I would be releasing a lot more eggs than normal. Is it true that stopping birth control increases the chances of pregnancy more so than a woman who has never taken it. And what are the chances that I got pregnant with faternal twins ( two fertilized eggs ) from just pre ejaculation?. rather than actual ejacualtion two days later.
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Originally Posted by moira1

i had sex twice during the week i concieved and now i am 23 weeks pregnant. unfortunately this was with two different partners and that is very rare for me considering ive been with the same guy for over a year now. (we broke up long story) anywho i am very worried that the baby may not be my boyfriend's. the (other) guy definately pulled out before ejaculating. two days later my boyfriend and i had sex and he definately did NOT pull out. because the dates are SO close it worries me on who the father is. i have heard so many different stories on the chances of becoming preganant from pre ejaculation. and also i had just recently stopped taking birth control before getting pregnant. i was told that this would completely screw up my ovulation timing and make it near impossible to calculate my actual conception date because i would be releasing alot more eggs than normal. is it true that stopping birth control increases the chances of pregnancy more so than a woman who has never taken it. and what are the chances that i got pregnant with faternal twins ( two fertilized eggs ) from just pre ejaculation??.. rather than actual ejacualtion two days later.
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I am not an expert on this, but have some basic knowledge and common sense, so here it goes. Yes, it is easier to get pregnant when you go off the because pill; some doctors suggest that to women who want to conceive. As for whose baby it is, you could always put money down and have a paternity test. As for getting pregnant from pre-ejaculate, yes I think there is a good possibility that could happen, those little spermatzoa are ready to swim up that canal as soon as they are released. They are absolutely programmed to know where and what to do. That is the reason there is so many of them, chances are one or two will make that trek and...

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Originally Posted by tickle

I am not an expert on this, but have some basic knowledge and common sense, so here it goes. Yes, it is easier to get pregnant when you go off the bc pill; some doctors suggest that to women who want to conceive. As for whose baby it is, you could always put money down and have a paternity test. As for getting pregnant from pre-ejaculate, yes I think there is a good possibility that could happen, those little spermatzoa are ready to swim up that canal as soon as they are released. They are absolutely programmed to know where and what to do. That is the reason there is so many of them, chances are one or two will make that trek and ........

As your partner ejaculates, a great amount of spermatozoa are released (forced out) from his penis and enter your vagina. You probably noticed that inside the brachets I used the word forced. Why?
Because unless the organism had this natural reaction, the woman would not get for sure pregrant, so it is actually a reaction of the body, needed!! In order for fertilization to occur. The sperm is better helped to enter inside the female reproduction system and neutralizes it since the vagina itself is acidic enough to kill the cowder's fluid. ( I will not analyze this part)
Pre ejaculation fluid, as various researchers indicate, contain from zero to very few spermatozoa. This quantity is not possible to cause fertilization in most cases. So I suppose the guy that pre ejaculated inside of you is not '' guilty''. However, please use condoms in future intercourses or at least,get pills (that are not totally effective but still an efford to avoid pregrancies) or advice your partners to have blood tests before any entrance for you to be sure they are not positive to any sexually transmitted diseases able to harm you a lot. Hope I helped, Wish you the best

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Originally Posted by moira1

i had sex twice during the week i concieved and now i am 23 weeks pregnant. unfortunately this was with two different partners and that is very rare for me considering ive been with the same guy for over a year now. (we broke up long story) anywho i am very worried that the baby may not be my boyfriend's. the (other) guy definately pulled out before ejaculating. two days later my boyfriend and i had sex and he definately did NOT pull out. because the dates are SO close it worries me on who the father is. i have heard so many different stories on the chances of becoming preganant from pre ejaculation. and also i had just recently stopped taking birth control before getting pregnant. i was told that this would completely screw up my ovulation timing and make it near impossible to calculate my actual conception date because i would be releasing alot more eggs than normal. is it true that stopping birth control increases the chances of pregnancy more so than a woman who has never taken it. and what are the chances that i got pregnant with faternal twins ( two fertilized eggs ) from just pre ejaculation??.. rather than actual ejacualtion two days later.
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Odds are in your favor that the baby is your boyfriend's, but you won't know 100% unless you have a paternity test done once baby is born. Are you pregnant with twins or are you just wondering about the possibility of twins from two different fathers? It happens, not often, but it is possible.