Can we stayed married if he doesn't like how I look?
My husband is African American and doesn't like the way my body looks. I have a nice size butt but he's obsessed with me having a bigger butt and wants me to gain weight. I weigh 135 and I'm five two. He has always compared me to these urban models saying they look better I should look like that. I have let myself go a little, it's hard to keep myself up if he's constantly comparing. I feel like I'm not good enough. We have 4 kids one is five weeks old. He has been masturbating to these women he wants me to be. Is it me or is he a jerk?