So my ex girlfriend says that it hurts her that I'm trying to stop talking to her? And it leaves me?? So anyone can please help me out lol

Lol, you, she wants you back, lol, and she doesn't want you out of her life, lol, that's why she's upset, lol.

Oi, that hurt my head.

She's your ex. She's your ex because you don't want to be with her, right? You're well within your right to stop talking to an ex. Most people that dated can't maintain a friendship after when their romantic relationship is over.

Will she be upset? Yes. Why? Because she only remained your friend so she could have a chance of getting you back. Now you're saying you no longer want contact with her, which means she has no hope of getting you back.

Stick to your guns, but lose the lol when you're talking about stuff like this. It shows a lack of caring, and a lack of maturity.

Good luck.

Sorry for the lol kind of use to putting it every were I type... well like we are best friends and we are cool with it..

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Originally Posted by ieddy187

sorry for the lol kinda use to putting it every were i type..... well like we are best friends and we are cool with it..

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If you're cool with being best friends then why do you want to stop talking to her?

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Originally Posted by Alty

If you're cool with being best friends then why do you want to stop talking to her?

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Cause of the feelings still there.. its not easy holding eveything back like I don't know what to do any more I know its bad but some times I get jealous.. I guess that's why I want to stop talking to her but to tell you the truth I cant..

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Originally Posted by ieddy187

cause of the feelings still there.. its not easy holding eveything back like idk what to do any more i know its bad but some times i get jealous..i guess thats why i want to stop talking to her but to tell you the truth i cant..

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So it's you that wants to get back together with her. Is that it? You still have feelings for her, but she just wants to be friends?

How old are the two of you?

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Originally Posted by Alty

So it's you that wants to get back together with her. Is that it? You still have feelings for her, but she just wants to be friends?

How old are the two of you?

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Yea its pretty much... well we both have felling for each other

We are both 19

If you both still have feelings for each other then why aren't you two together?

Maybe she still loves you... maybe... just maybe... lol