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Slow to reach orgasm

I am a 50 year old male who gets easily aroused but I find that it takes forever to reach orgasm. I sure would like to go back to the situation when I reach an orgasm in less time. Any help?:(

Try checking the side affects on any medication that you are on. Or something you have began doing since the timeing has changed.

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Originally Posted by Boney

I am a 50 year old male who gets easily aroused but I find that it takes forever to reach orgasim. I sure would like to go back to the situation when I reach an orgasim in less time. Any help?:(

Are you nutz?

The ladies would kill to get a man that takes forever to orgasm!

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Originally Posted by Boney

I am a 50 year old male who gets easily aroused but I find that it takes forever to reach orgasim. I sure would like to go back to the situation when I reach an orgasim in less time. Any help?:(

You don't have a problem - you have a gift!

Interesting answers!! The ladies will go for a sleep while he is having his errection inside their vagina without an orgasm. They will wake up after a long sleep to find out that he is still having his errection inside their vagina. You will go crazy with an errection which will take hours to get the orgasm. I agree that all men will think of having an errection which will stay long but not like this. Your errection is to satisfy the women as well as to get satisfied with an orgasm.

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Originally Posted by SHAVED

Interesting answers!!! The ladies will go for a sleep while he is having his errection inside their vagina without an orgasm. They will wake up after a long sleep to find out that he is still having his errection inside their vagina. You will go crazy with an errection which will take hours to get the orgasm. I agree that all men will think of having an errection which will stay long but not like this. Your errection is to satisfy the women as well as to get satisfied with an orgasm.

This is for Boney for his comment on my post.Very good!! You did not get the answer you want does not mean that you can post a negative rating on someone else's post. You must have a real valid reason to disagree on a post. I did not give you an answer for your problem, I was just giving you the normal way of sex which should be for the satisfation of both male and female. There are so many other threads with similar issues which you should read first. If you are not getting orgasm after a very long time of intercouse with your lady means you have some problem. Better to consult a good doctor for it. If you were expecting me to tell that you are gifted with the problem you have and if you think that it is a gift then why did you ask such a question here

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Originally Posted by SHAVED

Interesting answers!!! The ladies will go for a sleep while he is having his errection inside their vagina without an orgasm. They will wake up after a long sleep to find out that he is still having his errection inside their vagina. You will go crazy with an errection which will take hours to get the orgasm. I agree that all men will think of having an errection which will stay long but not like this. Your errection is to satisfy the women as well as to get satisfied with an orgasm.

This is for Shaved
Hi There
I think there has been misscommunication here. Firstly at the bottom of your message there is a statement "please rate etc." That is why I did.
No - I was not waiting for you to say the same things - such as it is a gift.. I am not a moron - if I thought it was a gift why send the post?? Like I can't work out that if there is a issue it would be best to get some help - that is why I came and posted in the first place - I was looking for some help. I do agree with you that both the male and female should reach orgasm - you are correct there and perhaps the others should get their head around that one too. I do appreciate your note of honesty and your communication - thanks for that. I did not rate you to knock your comment I was merely trying to help - perhaps by saying on another occasion if you post it is helpful to the receiver to get some advise / assistance. Until another time - thanks again for trying.

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Originally Posted by Boney

This is for Shaved
Hi There
I think there has been misscommunication here. Firstly at the bottom of your message there is a statement "please rate etc." That is why I did.
No - I was not waiting for you to say the same things - such as it is a gift.. I am not a moron - if I thought it was a gift why send the post?????????? Like I can't work out that if there is a issue it would be best to get some help - that is why I came and posted in the first place - I was looking for some help. I do agree with you that both the male and female should reach orgasim - you are correct there and perhaps the others should get their head around that one too. I do appreciate your note of honesty and your communication - thanks for that. I did not rate you to knock your comment I was merely trying to help - perhaps by saying on another occassion if you post it is helpful to the receiver to get some advise / assistance. Until another time - thanks again for trying.

Hi Boney,
Thanks for clarifying the situation. I was bit furious on your negative posting as you disagree with my post and it has taken a point from me. I think you were not aware that it will give a minus point to me. My note says that please rate me if my post helps you. If you agree with a post that person will get one point and if you disagree on a post that peroson will loose one point.

Have you tried more fore play?

You could try masturbating but NOT to the point or orgasm. Just to the point where you are about to orgasm, and then have sex. This will reduce the time it takes for you to get aroused.

Cheers!

How slow are you and why is it a problem??

Sounds like HE is taking longer to orgasm than his partner, and is then left without orgasm...

Boney,
I have the same problem -- and probably share your frustration with the answers above. My wife does not like me taking 45 minutes to come -- despite what the ladies say above -- and I don't like it either. I wish there was a way to experience more pleasure more quickly -- the masturbation before sex answer isn't bad -- but my God, who has the time?
This is related to 'head' issues, sure, but I also think we need to retrain our s, frnakly. I've stopped watching visual porno while masturbating -- I think I need to be more 'present' for my girl, right there in the moment. I'm also doing Kegels and acupuncture. I'll let you know how it goes... and keep me posted if you figure anything else out!
Thanks!

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Originally Posted by talaniman

Have you tried more fore play?

Hi Talaniman

Thanks for that. Yeah I have tried more foreplay - but it is kind of lengthy - am looking for a way to increase feeling / sensitivity. Thanks:o

Pad5000

Thanks for this. Yeah a bit long in the warm up zone is frustrating. I have found that Kegels and an Aneros help. The Aneros really gets things going. Have you every tried one? But if the acupunture works or some other way to keep it nice and natural let me know. Cheers.

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Originally Posted by kepi

You could try masturbating but NOT to the point or orgasm. Just to the point where you are about to orgasm, and then have sex. This will reduce the time it takes for you to get aroused.

Cheers!

Hi Kepi
Thanks for the advice. It is just a bit off putting having to do this every time or having to rush off somewhere to get warmed up. But hey the advise is good it does help.

Try being more adventurous in the bedroom, try something new, this could help to lighten the load!

After you orally satisfy your partner have her orally stimulate you and then without hesitation enter her. It will work!