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  • Sep 14, 2012, 07:20 AM
    loner4life
    I am 25 and I decided to be a LONER FOR LIFE!
    I am 25 years old guy.
    I become a loner when I was 16 and it all started when I was in love or you can say flactuation with a girl at age 12. She left the country and I felt that however I was a stupid child so I decided that I will marry her someday. However I never been in touch with her for long time, when I was 17 I finally was able to contact her and I told my feelings and she turn me down. So I guess after that point I become a loner.
    Now I am 25 and still I am a loner.

    I do believe in jyotish stuff and I seem my kundli and there is a chance of a divorce in my life, in other words 2 marriages...

    So after knowing this I made a life changing decision to be a LONER FOR LIFE! This way I will avoid all the disappoinment that faith as to offer. Well at least in this re-encarnation :)

    So What Do You Think? I'm I right in my decision or what?
  • Sep 14, 2012, 07:25 AM
    C0bra_M3nace
    So what is your question?
  • Sep 14, 2012, 12:39 PM
    loner4life
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by C0bra_M3nace View Post
    So what is your question?

    My question is:
    Do you think my decision is the right decision? What is your opinion
  • Sep 14, 2012, 06:02 PM
    C0bra_M3nace
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by loner4life View Post
    My question is:
    Do you think my decision is the right desicion? what is your opinion

    Wrong decision? Maybe not.

    Stupid decision? Yes.

    If you hang up your life because of one poor incident then what's the point. There are plenty of other girls and plenty of years to find one.
  • Sep 14, 2012, 06:23 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    It is your choice, so being a loner, how are you going to put the extra time to use. Are you going to meditate and study to further your enlightenment ? Are you going to devote your time to helping the poor or those in need ?

    Many holy men, such as the first Buddha have chosen a life of being alone.
  • Sep 14, 2012, 07:46 PM
    talaniman
    Let see, you hold a torch for a girl from 12 to 17, she rejects you, so you spend your life alone? If that's what you want for yourself then go for it. Me, I would be exploring and experimenting all the possibilities of life!

    Not blaming being alone on a GIRL.

    Just saying.

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