I lost my virginity when I was 15 . I've had multiple sex partners sense then . I'm 18 now . I've been seeing this guy for about 5 months and the other day he started accusing me of cheating on him saying I was looser then I was before because he uset to only be able to put one finger in me and now he can put two . I really haven't been having sex with anyone else ! I thought he was just trying to make me mad because when I was mad at him I told him his was small . He ended up cheating on me and having sex with his baby's mother . So I ended up having sex with the guy I lost my virginity to who I've had sex with a couple times over the years . He also told me I had gotten looser . Is my vagina really loose? Its making me feel really bad about myself and I don't know what to do . Help !

Vaginas don't get "loose" except maybe after having six or eight children. Maybe. Vaginas are very elastic and "snap back" to their original shape after use.

Sounds like he's trying to get back at you for telling him he is small..

Nobody on here can answer that. We don't know what vagina looked like before and what it looks like now. C'mon!

You're worried about how loose it is, but not the risk you take with disease and pregnancy? Seriously!

Time to get your priorities straight.

No they don't get loose, and with enough foreplay he should be able to get two fingers. I would guess he is larger than one finger ?

You never tell a guy he is small, even if he is. Yes he is mad and he is trying to hurt you.

Unless this gets solved, the relationship will not last much longer

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Originally Posted by Enigma1999

Nobody on here can answer that. We don't know what vagina looked like before and what it looks like now. C'mon!

You're worried about how loose it is, but not the risk you take with disease and pregnancy? Seriously!?

Time to get your priorities straight.

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Yo first of all your rude . I'm on birth control & I have never had unprotected sex . So yea , I am more worried about that more then I would be about catching some kind of disease or getting pregnant ! Pretty sure my priorities are straight .

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Originally Posted by elvis5678

Yo first of all your rude . I'm on birth control & i have never had unprotected sex . So yea , i am more worried about that more then i would be about catching some kind of disease or getting pregnant ! Pretty sure my priorities are straight .

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Yes. I am sure you're right. Sex at the age of 15, multiple partners by the age of 18, cheating on your partner, not very good at spelling and grammar, addresses people with "YO"... Yes, you seem very level headed.

Well done.