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  • Sep 10, 2012, 07:17 AM
    Celinee
    My mom wants a divorce
    So,I saw my mom's message to my dad saying its time to discuss divorcing.I was so afraid and I burst into tears.I don't want to lose any of them.Few years ago when I was younger,I heard them discussing divorce when we're on a holiday.I was just awake that time,they didn't know.That has been my nightmare till now.And its happening again.
  • Sep 10, 2012, 07:45 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Celinee View Post
    So,I saw my mom's message to my dad saying its time to discuss divorcing.I was so afraid and I burst into tears.I dont want to lose any of them.Few years ago when I was younger,I heard them discussing divorce when we're on a holiday.I was just awake that time,they didnt know.That has been my nightmare till now.And its happening again.


    You saw a message? Where?

    If they are going to divorce there is nothing you can do to stop them. They are both apparently unhappy.
  • Sep 10, 2012, 08:04 AM
    Celinee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    You saw a message? Where?

    If they are going to divorce there is nothing you can do to stop them. They are both apparently unhappy.

    I know it's rude but I saw it on my mom's phone.
  • Sep 10, 2012, 08:41 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Celinee View Post
    I know it's rude but I saw it on my mom's phone.


    I'll skip the talk about snooping - well, now you know something you aren't supposed to know so I don't know how you address it without admitting that you snooped.

    I think you have to ride it out, see what happens. If they are unhappy, perhaps they need to live apart.
  • Sep 10, 2012, 10:13 AM
    joypulv
    How old are you?
  • Sep 10, 2012, 09:58 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    This is not about you, and if your parents take their duties and responsibility properly you don't lose anyone, you merely share time with them.

    This is not the end of the world, and parents have to consider things that effect them also. You can not stop it, and should just stay out of it.

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