How to get myself up and work?
Myboyfreind of 10 years and 5 months( even though we had know each other longer) passed away July 18, 2012. He was the only one that ever truly knew me and I him, he was mt best friend ( my only true friend) , my soul mate, the very breath that I breath... And so many other things. I just cannot understand was going on. I like some one else said suffer from bouts of depression. I am total lost without him... My heart is gone! I feel like a zombie with no purpose... He family has shut me out of his home and stopped talking to me. All I have or memories of him talking of them. He used to say they love you. I would say no you love me. Then he would reply they know how much I love. My family can't talk to them... I know everyone grieves different. But my life is over... Don't have anyone to talk to that knew him like me. Im broke, have to go back to work don't know how. How do you get yourself up and face another day of this numbness, sadness, confusion, emptiness, loneliness, pain, and sorrow? I'm not young my life is over... but I'm still here don't understand how I'm suppose to be! I've read so many thing about it... Still makes no sense.. Don't know how to get up and move... 8 weeks ago today was our last weekend together. He cooked and we sat in the rockers on the porch he bought for us.. I think he's mom is taking them. Don't know there not telling me anything. All I wanted to do is go to his house and spend time with our memories... were we lived together. I want to go tie a yellow ribbon around this oak tree in his yard... How do I get up and work? I feel like the plague when people see me coming they think I should be better... I will never be better ! Please help!