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  • Sep 8, 2012, 02:58 PM
    Larry_styleson
    My family hate him
    PLEASE Reply ASAP!! Ok,so me and this guy have been dating for about 8 month now,we have a healthy relationship.we laugh.we cry.we smile.we fight.everything is going great... until recently... my family(aunt,and 17 years old my cousins) hate him! My aunt has something aginsted him mother,and my cousin doesn't like him,and my other cousin dated him.and like everybody says about every single guy other there;their only after one thing... and they have this image that he's going to rape me or something! And when he was dating my cousin,she said that he wanted to have sex with her and that's when she broke up with him... and I know that's a lie for a fact! he's NOT LIKE THAT!! They have the wrong image of him. He's more than that! He's 110% devoted to God! He LITERLY means the world to me! Buuuut... there's sort of a problem... but I don't think that It matters... kinda... I'm 13... and he's... umm... well his 17.but I'm really mature for my age.and I'm in 8th and he's in 12th. We have gone through so much together,and I would die if anything changed... I know this probably sounds like another tragic love story... but it's not... please help me :(
  • Sep 8, 2012, 03:05 PM
    Curlyben
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    He's 110% devoted to God
    If that where indeed true then he would have NO romantic interests in a CHILD.
  • Sep 8, 2012, 03:22 PM
    Homegirl 50
    If he were truly devoted to God, he would leave you alone knowing you are too young.
  • Sep 8, 2012, 04:58 PM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Larry_styleson View Post
    PLEASE REPLY BACK ASAP!!! Ok,so me and this guy have been dating for about 8 month now,we have a healthy relationship.we laugh.we cry.we smile.we fight.everything is going great...until recently...my family(aunt,and 17 years old my cousins) hate him!! My aunt has something aginsted him mother,and my cousin dosnt like him,and my other cousin dated him.and like everybody says about every single guy other there;their only after one thing...and they have this image that he's gonna rape me or something!! And when he was dating my cousin,she said that he wanted to have sex with her and that's when she broke up with him...and I know that's a lie for a fact!!hes NOT LIKE THAT!!!!!!They have the wrong image of him. He's more than that! He's 110% devoted to God! He LITERLY means the world to me!! Buuuut....there's sorta a problem...but I don't think that It matters....kinda....I'm 13...and he's...umm...well his 17.but I'm really mature for my age.and I'm in 8th and he's in 12th. We have gone through so much together,and I would die if anything changed.....I know this probably sounds like another tragic love story...but it's not.....please help me :(
    No, you wouldn't die if anything changed.

    I'm assuming you are mature and he is immature because other than that there's no explanation why a person who is 110% committed to God (whatever that means) would date a 13-year old after he dated her cousin.

    As far as replying asap - we're all volunteers. Some problems are more serious than others.

    I'm a lot older than 13 BUT when I was 13 I NEVER would have dated someone who dated my cousin. What about the "female friend code"?

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