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  • Sep 8, 2012, 12:07 PM
    bombon
    Why does everyone hate me
    Why dose it feel like every time I say or do something I make everyone mad at me.especially my mom she starts saying this and I know I have to do them and I say later and she starts yelling at me.sometimes I feel like killing myself so I don't every get them mad because I'm the reason everyone hates me.even my brothers and sisters say they wish I was dead.What should I do?
  • Sep 8, 2012, 12:11 PM
    Wondergirl
    EVERY time? Are there any good times?
  • Sep 8, 2012, 12:21 PM
    bombon
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    EVERY time? Are there any good times?

    There is some days that nothing happeness and then my brother starts thing and starts saying this like I hope you die, I wish you were dead,go kill yourself,I hope a bomb kills you and I'm sick of it!
  • Sep 8, 2012, 12:23 PM
    Wondergirl
    That's when you smile and say something nice and don't start a fight. Be the bigger person.
  • Sep 8, 2012, 12:31 PM
    bombon
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    That's when you smile and say something nice and don't start a fight. Be the bigger person.

    I don't say anything back and he won't saying things till I start crying and go to my room
  • Sep 8, 2012, 12:35 PM
    Wondergirl
    Why on earth would you cry? That just gives him permission to do it again to you.

    Stiffen your spine and ask him to play a game with you. Go into your best actress mode and put on an enthusiastic face. If you can do well with this situation, you will do well with difficult people the rest of your life. Start now!
  • Sep 8, 2012, 12:42 PM
    bombon
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Why on earth would you cry? That just gives him permission to do it again to you.

    Stiffen your spine and ask him to play a game with you. Go into your best actress mode and put on an enthusiastic face. If you can do well with this situation, you will do well with difficult people the rest of your life. Start now!

    Have you ever had an 11 year old hit you so hard that he makes bruses and sometime gets nifes and then puts them close to you and says he's going to kill you.I try not to cry but he always makes me and when ever we have someone over he acts lik ean angel and when they leave he's mean again.
  • Sep 8, 2012, 12:45 PM
    Wondergirl
    And your parents aren't aware of this?
  • Sep 8, 2012, 12:48 PM
    bombon
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    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    And your parents aren't aware of this?

    They are and they take him to counciling but when he's there he acts like an angle and the counciler says he dose not need it.
  • Sep 8, 2012, 12:52 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by bombon View Post
    they are and they take him to counciling but when hes there he acts like an angle and the counciler says he dose not need it.

    Does not need what? Um, counselors are smarter than that.

    So he stopped going for counseling?
  • Sep 8, 2012, 12:54 PM
    bombon
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Does not need what? Um, counselors are smarter than that.

    So he stopped going for counseling?

    He stopped going because we don't have money anymore and the conciler said it and so he stopped going.
  • Sep 8, 2012, 01:02 PM
    bombon
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Does not need what? Um, counselors are smarter than that.

    So he stopped going for counseling?

    They said he did not need it and we did not have money to pay so he stopped going.
  • Sep 8, 2012, 01:02 PM
    Wondergirl
    Why was he going in the first place?
  • Sep 8, 2012, 01:11 PM
    bombon
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Why was he going in the first place?

    He was going because he was frighting with us and yelling at us a lot and my mother was sick of it.
  • Sep 8, 2012, 01:13 PM
    Wondergirl
    So the counselor said there is nothing wrong with him. He is now back home unmonitored to be a brat again. Or did the counselor give your parents some child-raising tips?
  • Sep 8, 2012, 02:53 PM
    PokeNiamh
    That's what happens to me a lot... Always pushed around... But, its best 2 just say what you want and stand up 4 urself- I did that 2 my little brother (he's 11 2) and he is OK towards me know. My mum helped me do this though. (She sticks up for me even though I'm nearly 14).
  • Sep 8, 2012, 03:21 PM
    Alty
    Kids, please write in English. Chat speak and text talk isn't English. We're an English speaking site, and text talk is against the rules of this site. Why? Because it's not a language, it's not acceptable, and anyone over the age of 40 that has half a brain can't decode this nonsense.

    2 = to, too, or two.
    u = you
    4 = for
    yourself = yourself

    You will need to know how to write and communicate when you're an adult. You may think it's cute when you're 14, but it's not that cute when you're writing a resume using chat speak, and employers will not appreciate it.

    Use your words!
  • Sep 8, 2012, 03:21 PM
    bombon
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    So the counselor said there is nothing wrong with him. He is now back home unmonitored to be a brat again. Or did the counselor give your parents some child-raising tips?

    Yup and the consular said let him do what he needes to do.
  • Sep 8, 2012, 03:23 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by bombon View Post
    yup and the consular said let him do wat he needes to do.

    Wow. I'm not buying that at all.

    Try again. :)
  • Sep 8, 2012, 03:25 PM
    bombon
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by PokeNiamh View Post
    Thats what happens 2 me alot... Always pushed around... But, its best 2 just say what u want and stand up 4 urself- I did that 2 my little brother (he's 11 2) and he is ok towards me know. My mum helped me do this though. (She sticks up 4 me even though im nearly 14).

    Im 14 to and I try to and somedays he will leave me alone and mess with my little sister then I try to stop them and now my sis is like my brother.

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