All right, so my ex broke up with me about 2 weeks ago cause I'm "a distraction cause he really likes me & about to be sponsored in skateboarding". And a few days ago it was my birthday and he left me a present with a note. We got back together that day and he broke up with me 2 days later again. I really miss him & I don't know if I should text him?

I don't think you should contact him... He has made it clear that he not only doesn't want to be with yiu, but his credibility is shot. Breaking up and getting back together then breaking up and getting back together is a recipe for disaster. It's only going to hurt you in the long run..

I'm curious as to why he can't be with you AND sign on at the same time? I understand that he said that you are a distraction, but life is a bunch of distractions... until we die that is...

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Originally Posted by Enigma1999

I don't think you should contact him... He has made it clear that he not only doesn't want to be with yiu, but his credibility is shot. Breaking up and getting back together then breaking up and getting back together is a recipe for disaster. It's only going to hurt you in the long run..

I'm curious as to why he can't be with you AND sign on at the same time? I understand that he said that you are a distraction, but life is a bunch of distractions...until we die that is...

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My dumbself ended up texting him and he told me the real reason he didn't want a girlfriend. He says he didn't want things to get serious because of past stuff. So he pretty much just used me. 5 months with this jerk. I feel so stupid for crying over him and whining to my best friend about how much I love him.