I was with a girl who was married. It was a long distance relationship. We knew each other for ten years and were great friends. Her husband beat me to her by less thane a year. She said her marriage was ending and we started seeing each other before it did. I was also in a relationship. I had been in love with her since I first met her though. We were there for each other through a lot of hard times. We started to fight a little (mostly about her estranged husband still being around). We made plans to move into together in a deffrenant city then either of us lived in. Five weeks before we were to move she told me that I was "too controlling" and moved to the new city with her husband. I asked her to explain how I could "control" her from five states away. She said I didn't really control her but that she felt that way at times. No further explination was given. Then she cut off all contact with me for reasons I still don't understand. I do still really love her In spite of all she's done and I have no idea what to do. Advise please?