I have been with my boyfriend now for 8 months I know its not a long time but its my longest relationship? For a couple of weeks now I do not feel the same about him as I did in the start, I thought the 'novelty' wore off but its not even that, when he comes up to see me I feel really distant with him and I don't know why. I don't even feel as passionate in the bedroom either. We tried going on a week break in which we both decided but he started talking to me after a couple of hours then we didn't speak for a day it really didn't work because he loves me too much and I know that I am not making the effort and I don't know why and I don't know whether I should split up with him. I am clearly not happy and he is I don't want to make him feel up set because I still care about him but I just don't feel the same way any more.
Any advice/help will be very great full thanks.

Then why not leave him? This is no way to have a relationship. I don't think it's very fair to him that you stick around either. He deserves to at least know that you don't feel the same way. It's not uncommon for couples to grow apart. Just have a talk with him, tell him how you feel and that maybe the best thing to do is to part ways. Breaks seldom fix anything.

Maybe you should try going on an actual break, as in splitting up with him for a bit if you really feel this way. You could break up with him, for maybe a week. At the end of the week you should sit down with him and tell him whether you still love him or not. In the week, you should cut off communication with him, just to see how you cope without him. Even if you do break up, he'll eventually move on. And if you do, do it in person, because doing it over text is basically the chickens way out.

Hope this helped :P x

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Originally Posted by Toxic_Kiwiw

Maybe you should try going on an actual break, as in splitting up with him for a bit if you really feel this way. You could break up with him, for maybe a week. At the end of the week you should sit down with him and tell him whether you still love him or not. In the week, you should cut off communication with him, just to see how you cope without him. Even if you do break up, he'll eventually move on. And if you do, do it in person, because doing it over text is basically the chickens way out.

Hope this helped :P x

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If a relationship needs a "break" then what's the point of even moving forward. A healthy successful relationship should need no time apart at all.

Like I said above. Breaks seldom fix anything.