We have a child we are having an affair
My first love who is the father of my 16 year daughter has come back in the picture. He has been very supportive of her financially but has never been there much physically. He and I are both married and having problems in our marriages.
Several months ago we began to share our feelings about our past and about our relationships with our spouses. We are both struggling in our marriages but holding on because we have other children involved.
I never stopped loving him, but I thought the relationship was over. He says he loves me too. We are now having an affair and today I tested positive on a home pregnancy test.
He is okay about the baby but wants me to not say anything to his wife, which I was not planning to do. My husband has no idea, but his wife intercepted a voice mail from me, informing him. He denied it.
What now? We have our 16 year old to worry about as well.