My boyfriend & I use to have sex on a pretty regular basis. We are both age 32
My boyfriend and I are both 32yo. In the beginning of the relationship sex was fairly frequent but it has gotten to a much slower pace to where we will go 2 weeks without any. It has really taken a toll on myself esteem as of lately. I know he sneaks & watches porn which I have told him many times before I could careless if he watches it. I have even suggested watching it together & he says no. He says there is nothing wrong with watching porn as that's what guys do but he swears up & down that he doesn't masturbate which also doesn't bother me even if he did. I have noticed that when we do have sex he finishes really quickly & after he says he's embarrassed because he went so quickly. I reassured him that I have no complaints about the length of time before he ejaculates & that I just want to have sex. He also doesn't kiss me at all during sex. I'm also not allowed to talk dirty or send him sexy pics as he says it's not ladylike & he's not into that kind of stuff. I'm on the verge of breaking up with him or cheating on him because I just don't know how much more I can take! He says it's due to stress but I don't buy that considering he has no problem watching porn. What do I do? I am very must in love with this man but I do have needs that need to be taken care of! We also use to cuddle every single night & now when I try to cuddle him he pushes my away & says my skin against his is to hot & makes him hot, when before him & I cuddled every night at his request. I have seriously been thinking lately that he's just not interested in me anymore but is afraid to break it off & look Ike the bad guy. He has even for the past 3 months been very moody & quick to jump down my throat about everything. I told himtwo at I thought about the whole him being afraid to break up & be the bad guy & he says I am being ridiculous & that he loves my with all his heart.