Me and my partner have been together 2 years and got a little girl on the waay he shows me hardly any affection he won't sleep with me harldly ever did before I got pregnant made excuses all the time most of the time he will show the dog more affection than me think he will be more excited if the dog was to have puppies than me having this baby :-( please help me what shall I do ? Every time I mention sex or why don't you want to he sees his arse and says I go on about it all the time should I finish it or stay with him I do love him but starting tto think all sorts now is he seeing someone else ? X

Have you tried talking to him about how you feel?

Mention to him that you feel neglected, that you feel unloved. Try to use words like "I" and "me" while trying to stay away from the word "you". If he's like anyone, he's probably not going to have a clue what's going on in your head unless you tell him.

As far as the sex goes, try not talking to him about it at all. Don't even mention the word sex or any sexual activities for about a month. Unless he has a diminishied libido, it shouldn't take long for him to start asking for it.

I have tried talking to him he says its just me but it realli isn't he used to say a lot of realli nice things and is different when others are around but he would rather havr the dog lyin in him than me not rrealli sure what to do evetytime I mention it turns into a argument. Its casusing big problems because were are arguing more than having a laugh I feel like I can't touch him because he is going to reject me. Also his dad asked him to take him 54 miles away to pick a car up its around 3 hourz to get there and 3 hours to get back I said can you please say no cause I'm due to giv birth at any point as I'm in slow labour and he seen his arse and didn't speak to me all day didn't think I was being unfair? Also I've tried the not mentioning sex but he just doesn't either could go months do you think he could be seeing someone else? Help x

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Originally Posted by tankeyboy

I have tryed talking to him he says its just me but it realli isnt he used to say alot of realli nice things and is different when others are around but he would rather havr the dog lyin in him than me not rrealli sure what to do evetytime I mention it turns into a argument. Its casusing big problems coz were r arguing more than having a laugh I feel like I can't touch him coz he is going to reject me. Also his dad asked him to take him 54 miles away to pick a car up its around 3 hourz to get there and 3 hours to get back I said can u please say no cause im due to giv birth at any point as im in slow labour and he seen his arse and didnt speak to me all day didnt think I was being unfair? Also ive tryed the not mentioning sex but he just doesnt either could go months do u think he could be seeing some1 else? Help x

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It's really hard to say what's going on but if you're not happy then why are you sticking around. There are plenty of guys out there who will give you more attention than the dog.