Please I need serois help here,someone I call my wife keep locking me

May wife keeps locking me outside after coming back from where I watch football,tink its getting too much 5th times now I slept at d station.

Why don't you have a key to your own house?

Have you spoken to her about this ?
Are you coming back at an unreasonable hour a bit the worse for alcohol ?

How about this... a novel concept... get a key to the door.

Also, site rules ONE thread per topic...

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Originally Posted by Curlyben

Have you spoken to her about this ?
Are you coming back at an unreasonable hour a bit the worse for alcohol ?

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Yup,spoke with her severally but she wouldn't just listen,10pm,I tink she's to jealous of me and not sociable person.

Didn't answer why you don't have a key to your own place yet...

Simbi, I think we need more background information.

How long have you been married? Do you have children? Does she lock you out for any other reasons? Has she told you why she locks you out?

How often do you go out to watch football (am I correct in thinking that the 'football' you are referring to is what is called 'soccer' in the USA?) Where do you watch football? How much are you drinking while you are out?

You say that she has done this five times. How many times have you gone out and she didn't lock you out?

You say that she doesn't listen to you, but I wonder if you have listened to her.

You say that she may be jealous and she isn't as social. Are you being overly social when you are out? Are you leaving her with a house full of problems while you are being social? Has she had to deal with the aftermath of you being social?

Does she get out of the house to have fun with her friends and family? Does she have any interests that give her time away from the house? Do you try to give her the time to get out have time for herself?