My problem is that when I'm hard I'm about 7inches so that's kind of normal.
But its when I'm not, that I have a problem. It shrinks down to about 2-3inches.
I get a complex from this, my wife doesn't think it's a problem, but to me it is.
What can I do?

Hey man,
You are normal. Your penis size is 7 inches when it is errect which is great and it is normal too to shrink to 2 or 3 inches.

Hi Doink,
I agree with Shaved, absolutely normal. There is absolutely no correlation between flaccid and erect states. According to the little I've read, often a shorter or smaller flaccid state can paradoxically equal greater length or girth in an erect state. Just remember, it's not the size of the pencil, it's how you write your name. She's already let you know you've left your mark. She's satisfied, leave it at that for the greater good of your relationship. :)

Dude I'm black and if my penis was seven inches erect I wouldn't give a if it disappeared when it was flacid. I remember a situation similar to this from sex edu. It is normal, but if it is bothering you it is a problem. You need something else to worry about. In my case I have noticed that if I masturbate or have sex about three times per week my penis is never fully flacid giving it a inch in length. But you really don't have a problem. I know people that would kill to have a seven inch penis.

Nothing. You can not do nothing because this is normal.

I do not understand why people focus on the small things all the time, oops did not mean small.

Your making a mountain out of a mole hill. It is normal. If after getting all these answers and you still find a problem with it.

You then need to seek counseling. Especially when your focusing on something that is not even a problem.

Joe

I just realised the user name doink. Another member or and new poster playing games?