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  • Sep 4, 2012, 03:48 PM
    marcus111211
    I like her and she is giving me mixed signals
    Okay so I met this girl through Facebook in the beginning of summer. She liked a bunch of my statuses and started a conversation with me because we were going to the same college. I thought she was attractive but I was wondering why she just suddenly started talking to me. So I give her my number and she started sending good morning texts. We would spend the whole day texting each other, even though sometimes I had to wait about half an hour for a text to come. I started to question whether she liked me or not cause she asked to play 20 questions with me and she asked me stuff like how many gfs have I had and what I look for a girlfriend. She also said that she wanted to go on a picnic in central park and go ice skating in the winter. Later, I asked her if she wanted to go see a movie with me and she said that she would love to. Oddly enough, non of these plans were carried out. I asked her out to the movies again and she said sure, but we didn't go out yet. I met her in person last week Monday and she barely talked to me. She said she was shy :/. That Thursday she got kind of mad because I didn't text her all day so I said I would make it up to her by waiting with her before her class starts. We talked and we both enjoyed the conversation. She called me buddy a few times, but she also asked about my ex and said that I could do way better after seeing a picture of her. I compliment a lot and try to make her feel special... but I don't know. A part of me thinks she likes me but I'm not sure. I really want to tell her how I feel before its too late because its our first year in college and anything can happen, but I don't want to make things awkward if she rejects me. I am human, so I am afraid of rejection, but I willing to get past that fear for her. Any advice?
  • Sep 5, 2012, 03:52 AM
    C0bra_M3nace
    One quote.

    "You miss 100% of the swings you don't take."

    I would, however, try to get the ball rolling on a couple of those dates first.
  • Sep 5, 2012, 04:23 AM
    joypulv
    Whenever you meet someone you like, remember ---- they are often just as hesitant and uncertain and waiting for some clues as you are! How hard is it to say 'I really like you.' 'I really enjoy our talks.' 'I really like being around you.' You can do it as you turn to leave, with a big smile, and a promise to talk again soon.

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