Originally Posted by
ScottGem
Several things here. First, it is not a good idea to piggyback your post on another thread. So to avoid confusion I've moved your post to its own thread. Second, any question on law needs to include your general locale as laws vary by area. I know you posted this under a thread that referred to NJ, but you didn't indicate if that is where the house is.
We also need to know a lot more before we can help. You say you were legally married when your ex died. And that even though you were separated it wasn't a legal separation. So the question is did she leave a will? Also how was the house titled, as Joint tenants with Survivorship or just In Common?
The next question is what have you being doing for three years? Why haven't you paid the mortgage or taxes? Finally, you say they are trying to take the property from you. What do you mean by this? Have they filed a claim under adverse possession? Has anything been filed in court with respect to ownership.
Answer ALL these questions and then we should be able to advise you.