My mother, was cremated on her own wishes without flowers and service, two of the siblings now want to bury my mothers ashes under a TREE! My mother did not want to be buried she made this clear to all four of us unfortunetly the two siblings who want to bury her have the ashes is their anyway we can stop them burrying my mums ashes because that is far from what she wanted and its upsetting the rest of the family what they are doing.