Is this where I can ask aperfessional ob gyn a personal question I have I'm only 3o but after my near death 3 years ago I'm terrified anxiey of hospitals can someone help

We don't have OB/GYNs here, but I am a RN in women's health. How can I help you?

OK and thank you but I just wanted to see if you can let me know what I could be up against or a little more I can research before seeing my doctor I'm so terrified of these pkaced since I almost passed 3 years ago. I noticed earlier today that I seemed to have extra tissue from my anus to my vulva area which seemed to be due to sexual intercourse its seemed I noticed after trying to wipe extra skin a little soreness I have been in a relationship 4 years ago mind you I'm just researching but I found rectocele to have same symptoms and risk factors , can you explain further more or have suggestions or relief ideass I can use until ready to go to my doctor