Is It Normal To Have A Love Hate Relationship With Your Friend(s) ? Because Ive Noticed lately That One Of My Really Close Friend(s) Have Been Treating Me Different . For Example We All Decided To Go Out To Lunch Together Even Though I Was Very Reluctant To Go In The First Place . But Once We Sat Down And Talked For A Few Minutes One Of The Girls Decides To Make Me The Butt Of Their Jokes So Of Course I Was Angry And Then The Other Friend Who I Think Has The Love Hate Relationship With Me Decides To Join In And Take Jabs And I Kind of Just Sat Through It Trying To Hold My Tongue Because Im Pretty Sure I Was Going to Cuss Em Out If I Didn't , If Its Something Negative About me They Side With Each other ALWAYS . Am I Just Being To Uptight Or Is This The Love Hate I Am Talking About ?

Well as long as they are still joking its normal
Friends joke with each other normally but if you don't like it tell them that its bothering you and that they should stop
And can you please tell me what do you mean by love/hate?

And I think you are reacting a lot

I think it is teens behaving rudely.
It it bothers you tell them to chill. If they don't, stop hanging out with them.

Most of the time yes they do

And like homegirl said stop hanging around them
That is if they don't stop after you tell them that it bothers you

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Originally Posted by Inso The Jester

and can you please tell me what do you mean by love/hate?

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Yes, I too would like to know what you mean by this?

The way I was raised is treat people the way you would want to be treated.

Friends should make their feel special. Make them feel good about themselves! A shoulder to cry on. Show loyalty! Not the opposite. You should speak to your friend/s about this. Explain that what they are doing is hurtful. If they continue... then they aren't your friends...

Speak up don't let it get buried inside,sometimes people need to know,so you should tell them

P.S. love/hate?

Thanks Everyone . It Was The First Thing That Popped In My Head... LOL

Thanks .