I'm 15 and I really like this guy. I've known him for like 7 months. He's had sex before and he wants to have sex with me. I want to make him happy but I don't know if I'm ready. I want to have sex except I'm not 100% comfortable with my body. I feel like my "part" is different. And I don't know if he is going to want to stay with me. HELP!

Wait. Don't give sex to get love. It never works out. What you have, your virginity, is very special. Don't give it up easily.

You may regret it if you lose your virginity to this guy. Plus, are you ready to possibly get pregnant?

I agree with the others above me. Your virginity is very special and should be saved for someone you want to spend your life with. While you may feel that you may be in love with this boy, the chances are that you won't be together 5 years from now.

Also, sex presents the very real possibility of pregnancy. At your ages, if you were to get pregnant, you will have to stay home taking care of a baby while he is out partying. That's not really something you want to do, is it?

Sex will destroy your relationship it won't help
And you are way too young to be sexualy activated
OK you are 15 and he has had sex before?
How old is he?

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Originally Posted by funchart14

I'm 15 and I really like this guy. I've known him for like 7 months. He's had sex before and he wants to have sex with me. I want to make him happy but I don't know if I'm ready. I want to have sex except I'm not 100% comfortable with my body. I feel like my "part" is different. And I don't know if he is gonna want to stay with me. HELP!

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Here's my concern - he WANTS to have sex with her.

For Funchart - he's had sex before. He's no longer with that person.

Do you want him to explain to his next girlfriend that you were his most recent sexual partner?

Why not worry about him pleasing you, not you pleasing him, tell him you want to wait till you are 18 and can still have a wonderful relationship dating. Any guy that will not agree, does not really care for or love you, they just want sex.

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

Why not worry about him pleasing you, not you pleasing him, tell him you want to wait till you are 18 and can still have a wonderful relationship dating. Any guy that will not agree, does not really care for or love you, they just want sex.

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I totally agree

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

Why not worry about him pleasing you, not you pleasing him, tell him you want to wait till you are 18 and can still have a wonderful relationship dating. Any guy that will not agree, does not really care for or love you, they just want sex.

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Totally agree - and I realize we aren't taking votes, running for office and this isn't a chat board - BUT I'm not sure 18 is the age when people should start having sex. I think it's more a question of being mature enough for both parties to use protection (yes, two types) and both realizing that sex can equal pregnancy can equal baby can equal a lifetime connection to each other and a lifetime commitment to a child.