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Best bud is ignoring me

So I've known this kid since 1st grade right? So six years in elementary, then we started middle school this year. His whole football team (american football) is going to school with us now and he seems too embarrassed to speak to me. Ill see him in the hall and call out "hey!" and he gives me a half grimace half smile. We were best friends for 3 years, right up until we went in to seventh grade. Whenever we don't have people around he is normal. He ignores my texts but whenever I'm with him he is adament he HAS to return his buddies' texts. Is he done being friends with me? I miss my old friend.

People sometimes change on the outside and inside your friend has changed on the outside and I don't mean his body I mean the stuff that people see what I would do is not talk to him or look at him for a while or I would talk to him right now and tell him how I feel it depends on you
And by the way moving from elementary to middle school is a big change
I had friends that were with me from first grade we were always together as long as I can remember and now we hate each other so badly that I was going to kill one of them that annoyed me so much and I got jailed for it

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Originally Posted by Inso The Jester

now we hate each other so badly that i was going to kill one of them that annoyed me so much and i got jailed for it

What? Really?

You're saying stuff like this and giving advice? Nice...

Well I've been through a lot but now I know my wrongs and YES I am going for advice by telling him/her my wrong and telling him what's right to do
And not to do the same mistakes I made
Oh and by annoyed I mean torcherd

Sorry for my bad spelling

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Originally Posted by odinn7

What? Really?

You're saying stuff like this and giving advice? Nice....

He's also an anarchist, self proclaimed.

I'm not sure that this is an appropriate person to be giving advice to teens. He obviously does not fit in with his peer group, yet he is advising people.

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

He's also an anarchist, self proclaimed.

I'm not sure that this is an appropriate person to be giving advice to teens. He obviously does not fit in with his peer group, yet he is advising people.

And again I had a life before coming here and I have advised many people and it worked out great with them
And when you live under the law I'm living in you have no choice but to be an anarchist
What kind of law allows you to kill your someone and get away with it?
And yes the person killed was a family member

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Originally Posted by Inso The Jester

and again i had a life before coming here and i have advised many people and it worked out great with them
and when you live under the law im living in you have no choice but to be an anarchist
what kind of law allows you to kill your someone and get away with it??
and yes the person killed was a family member

What law are you living under? What Country?

You lost a family member to violence and you advise others to commit violence - have I got that right?

Please - you have no choice?

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

What law are you living under? What Country?

You lost a family member to violence and you advise others to commit violence - have I got that right?

Please - you have no choice?

I WAS NOT ADVISING HIM TO DO ANY TYPE OF VIOLENCE!

When I advise someone if I have been through the same problem I say what I did and I say what not to do
It helps getting the idea

And I like to stay unknown to anyone so sorry I won't answer your questions

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Originally Posted by Inso The Jester

I WAS NOT ADVISING HIM TO DO ANY TYPE OF VIOLENCE!!

when i advise someone if i have been through the same problem i say what i did and i say what not to do
it helps getting the idea

and i like to stay unknown to anyone so sorry i wont answer your questions

Please post only upbeat, positive, helpful advice (NOT what not to do). Thank you.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Please post only upbeat, positive, helpful advice (NOT what not to do). Thank you.

Thank you
I will do that

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Originally Posted by Inso The Jester

thank you
i will do that

I see you have offered good advice, so I know you are capable of staying away from what not to do. I eagerly look forward to reading more from you.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

I see you have offered good advice, so I know you are capable of staying away from what not to do. I eagerly look forward to reading more from you.

And I hope you will thanks again for pointing that out for me I guess giving advice on the internet is way more different than face to face talking I apoligize for what happened

Sorry for my bad spelling

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Originally Posted by Inso The Jester

I WAS NOT ADVISING HIM TO DO ANY TYPE OF VIOLENCE!!

when i advise someone if i have been through the same problem i say what i did and i say what not to do
it helps getting the idea

and i like to stay unknown to anyone so sorry i wont answer your questions

Posting in caps is the same as shouting - it's not necessary.

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

Posting in caps is the same as shouting - it's not necessary.

OK I'm sorry for that too