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  • Aug 28, 2012, 05:57 PM
    ZozoLuvr
    Best bud is ignoring me
    So I've known this kid since 1st grade right? So six years in elementary, then we started middle school this year. His whole football team (american football) is going to school with us now and he seems too embarrassed to speak to me. Ill see him in the hall and call out "hey!" and he gives me a half grimace half smile. We were best friends for 3 years, right up until we went in to seventh grade. Whenever we don't have people around he is normal. He ignores my texts but whenever I'm with him he is adament he HAS to return his buddies' texts. Is he done being friends with me? I miss my old friend.
  • Aug 29, 2012, 11:58 AM
    Inso The Jester
    People sometimes change on the outside and inside your friend has changed on the outside and I don't mean his body I mean the stuff that people see what I would do is not talk to him or look at him for a while or I would talk to him right now and tell him how I feel it depends on you
    And by the way moving from elementary to middle school is a big change
    I had friends that were with me from first grade we were always together as long as I can remember and now we hate each other so badly that I was going to kill one of them that annoyed me so much and I got jailed for it
  • Aug 29, 2012, 06:21 PM
    odinn7
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Inso The Jester View Post
    now we hate each other so badly that i was going to kill one of them that annoyed me so much and i got jailed for it

    What? Really?

    You're saying stuff like this and giving advice? Nice...
  • Aug 30, 2012, 07:39 AM
    Inso The Jester
    Well I've been through a lot but now I know my wrongs and YES I am going for advice by telling him/her my wrong and telling him what's right to do
    And not to do the same mistakes I made
    Oh and by annoyed I mean torcherd

    Sorry for my bad spelling
  • Aug 30, 2012, 07:42 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by odinn7 View Post
    What? Really?

    You're saying stuff like this and giving advice? Nice....


    He's also an anarchist, self proclaimed.

    I'm not sure that this is an appropriate person to be giving advice to teens. He obviously does not fit in with his peer group, yet he is advising people.
  • Aug 30, 2012, 07:47 AM
    Inso The Jester
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    He's also an anarchist, self proclaimed.

    I'm not sure that this is an appropriate person to be giving advice to teens. He obviously does not fit in with his peer group, yet he is advising people.

    And again I had a life before coming here and I have advised many people and it worked out great with them
    And when you live under the law I'm living in you have no choice but to be an anarchist
    What kind of law allows you to kill your someone and get away with it?
    And yes the person killed was a family member
  • Aug 30, 2012, 07:59 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Inso The Jester View Post
    and again i had a life before coming here and i have advised many people and it worked out great with them
    and when you live under the law im living in you have no choice but to be an anarchist
    what kind of law allows you to kill your someone and get away with it??
    and yes the person killed was a family member


    What law are you living under? What Country?

    You lost a family member to violence and you advise others to commit violence - have I got that right?

    Please - you have no choice?
  • Aug 30, 2012, 08:05 AM
    Inso The Jester
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    What law are you living under? What Country?

    You lost a family member to violence and you advise others to commit violence - have I got that right?

    Please - you have no choice?

    I WAS NOT ADVISING HIM TO DO ANY TYPE OF VIOLENCE!

    When I advise someone if I have been through the same problem I say what I did and I say what not to do
    It helps getting the idea

    And I like to stay unknown to anyone so sorry I won't answer your questions
  • Aug 30, 2012, 08:09 AM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Inso The Jester View Post
    I WAS NOT ADVISING HIM TO DO ANY TYPE OF VIOLENCE!!

    when i advise someone if i have been through the same problem i say what i did and i say what not to do
    it helps getting the idea

    and i like to stay unknown to anyone so sorry i wont answer your questions

    Please post only upbeat, positive, helpful advice (NOT what not to do). Thank you.
  • Aug 30, 2012, 08:10 AM
    Inso The Jester
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Please post only upbeat, positive, helpful advice (NOT what not to do). Thank you.

    Thank you
    I will do that
  • Aug 30, 2012, 08:12 AM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Inso The Jester View Post
    thank you
    i will do that

    I see you have offered good advice, so I know you are capable of staying away from what not to do. I eagerly look forward to reading more from you.
  • Aug 30, 2012, 08:14 AM
    Inso The Jester
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    I see you have offered good advice, so I know you are capable of staying away from what not to do. I eagerly look forward to reading more from you.

    And I hope you will thanks again for pointing that out for me I guess giving advice on the internet is way more different than face to face talking I apoligize for what happened

    Sorry for my bad spelling
  • Aug 30, 2012, 08:16 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Inso The Jester View Post
    I WAS NOT ADVISING HIM TO DO ANY TYPE OF VIOLENCE!!

    when i advise someone if i have been through the same problem i say what i did and i say what not to do
    it helps getting the idea

    and i like to stay unknown to anyone so sorry i wont answer your questions


    Posting in caps is the same as shouting - it's not necessary.
  • Aug 30, 2012, 08:25 AM
    Inso The Jester
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    Posting in caps is the same as shouting - it's not necessary.

    OK I'm sorry for that too

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