So I hear a lot of folks feel guilty during sex, but theirs seem to stem from a religious point. Mine isn't.
I'm 18, first had sex at age 18 with a trusted long term partner. It's great.

So anyway, I always knew I wanted to have sex at the legal age, not 14,15 and the actual legal age at 16. I waited. I was pleased with that.

But sometimes when I have sex, and this is when it's perfect, I'll feel so bad. I'll just think, I shouldn't have done that.
And I have no idea why... It's such a strange feeling. How can something so great feel so incredibly wrong, makes me feel so bad it's nauseating.
Anyway just wanted to know If any other girls felt like this, or males?

Thanks.

Sort of like buyers remorse, you really wanted to buy that dress, costly, so you do, then a few days latter you wish you had not.

There is only ONE first time, best done in a way that will be special for the rest of your life.
But it is over and done, no need to dwell on the past, if you wish to stop and wait you may.

Next we all have morals, either religious or social. So it all just is part of us.

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Originally Posted by Keironkeller

So I hear a lot of folks feel guilty during sex, but theirs seem to stem from a religious point. Mine isn't.
I'm 18, first had sex at age 18 with a trusted long term partner. It's great.

So anyways, I always knew I wanted to have sex at the legal age, not 14,15 and the actual legal age at 16. I waited. I was pleased with that.

But sometimes when I have sex, and this is when it's perfect, I'll feel so bad. I'll just think, I shouldn't have done that.
And I have no idea why... It's such a strange feeling. How can something so great feel so incredibly wrong, makes me feel so bad it's nauseating.
Anyways just wanted to know If any other girls felt like this, or males?

Thanks.

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Is it guilt over having a sexual relationship outside of marriage?

EDIT: I would appear that the sex ISN'T great, or perfect - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-...ex-697326.html

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

Is it guilt over having a sexual relationship outside of marriage?

EDIT: I would appear that the sex ISN'T great, or perfect - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-...ex-697326.html

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Seems to be conflicting posts...

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Originally Posted by smoothy

Seems to be conflicting posts...

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All sorts of issues, most of which center around attitude: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/medica...ma-703939.html - "wow I'm so glad I asked and got a- 'go to the doctor, don't be foolish' bla bla.... when people ask questions like these on the net, your answer is not what they are looking for. if u don;t know, don't answer. It's very simple."

One of the reasons I think the first dismissive answer should be the last dismissive answer - apparently, Smoothy, your input wasn't necessary this time.