Me and my boyfriend have been trying to have sex its my first time but I find it to painful and uncomfortable I'm worried my hyman is too thick and from internet research it says I should speak to a gynecologist please help ?

Not impossible, only going to the doctor will tell you that, after an exam.

Of course also , how high is your ability to have pain, how much foreplay and if your body is really ready. But the first time HURTS, hurts more for some than others.

Sort of your body telling you that there is only one first time

Sorry my dear, welcome to womanhood. Its always like that for every women but as time goes on you will feel better.I don't think you need to see any doc.