Me and my ex had been going out for 6 years now, things were a little rocky towards the end, we argued a lot more but I figured we would get over it, and then one day she just said I can't be with you no more, that she is not in love with me and her feelings have changed. It was a shocker to me. She said she had been stressed at work and with her family needing money and she couldn't deal with me adding to the stress anymore. A few days later she said she wants to be with me again and then the next day she says she doesn't... And she won't talk to me over the phone or answer my texts she just talks to a mutual friends which they tell me all of this... I was thinking of proposing to this girl Before all this happened... So now I don't know what to do.

If she isn't talking to you, I wouldn't accept what you are hearing from others. She broke up with you. So, if she wants to discuss getting back together, she needs to do it directly to you. In the meantime, don't contact her. Let her work it out herself. If she decides to for sure, and she's ready, she should contact you.

How old are the both of you and what were you arguing about?

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

How old are the both of you and what were you arguing about?

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She's 25, I'm 29 and we were just arguing about the problems were having in te relationship, money, work and family problems

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Originally Posted by Magpie95

If she isn't talking to you, I wouldn't accept what you are hearing from others. She broke up with you. So, if she wants to discuss getting back together, she needs to do it directly to you. In the meantime, don't contact her. Let her work it out herself. If she decides to for sure, and she's ready, she should contact you.

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Yea I agree, it just kills me knowing that she doesn't want to be with me... in the last year she was talking about marriage and having kids, and I was willing to give that to her this year... :(

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Originally Posted by Jeevs

Yea I agree, it just kills me knowing that she doesn't want to be with me...in the last year she was talking about marriage and having kids, and I was willing to give that to her this year... :(

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You were willing to give that to her this year? After 6 years and with that attitude, maybe that is her problem. She is tired of waiting.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

You were willing to give that to her this year? After 6 years and with that attitude, maybe that is her problem. She is tired of waiting.

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Yea I was planning on proposing this year and start working on a baby near the end of the year... She said even if I proposed to her now it would be too late

Well after 6 years I guess she just got tire of waiting for a commitment from you.
Leave her alone