I am going through menopause and having night sweats and hot flashes. My hair has picked up the color out of my pillowcase and a red hat . I know this is hard to believe but,true . I have tried lemon juice, aspirin,baking soda mixed with shampoo and chelation shampoo and nothing works. I used a purple shampoo when every time I wash my hair to keep the color looking fantastic. I have had comments on my hair for the last 20 yrs. Can you help me?