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  • Aug 26, 2012, 12:00 AM
    Campdraftqueen
    Mum
    Here is the thing, Ive got a new boyfriend and we have been going out for 7 months now and we are starting to want to go out together and go do things with each other but the only thing stopping us I'm my mum. She doesn't let me go out with him its like I a animal that I constantly locked in the house. Im not allowed to do anything or go anywhere and I'm over it. I need help. Wat can I do to make her let me out. HELP Please
  • Aug 26, 2012, 12:17 AM
    J_9
    How old are you? How old is this boy?
  • Aug 26, 2012, 12:27 AM
    Curlyben
    Hardly surprising seeing that you are merely 14..
    She is simply looking out for your best interests..
  • Aug 26, 2012, 02:37 AM
    joypulv
    Didn't you sneak around with this guy before? Didn't you start having sex at 12? Of course your mother is not letting you go anywhere; you have shown not one shred of responsibility or anything to prove that you deserve her trust. Just wait until you have a disease or get pregnant or arrested for something. Will you want her help then?
    I dated when I was 14, a freshman in high school. I got all As and didn't lie and sneak. It wasn't easy because my mother was the suspicious type even though I wasn't doing anything.
    And that was 50 years ago. It's been this way for thousands of years.
  • Aug 26, 2012, 06:52 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    You have a wonderful loving mom who knows more than you at this point. I am sure if you started making some good choices and going and doing good things, instead of immature choices.
  • Aug 26, 2012, 07:38 PM
    Campdraftqueen
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    How old are you? How old is this boy?

    I'm 14 and he is 15
  • Aug 26, 2012, 07:41 PM
    J_9
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Campdraftqueen View Post
    I'm 14 and he is 15

    Reviewing your other posts, your mother is making the right decision for you. You may not understand it now, but she was once 14, she's been around the block a few times. She's just looking out for your best interests, whether you agree or not.
  • Aug 26, 2012, 07:49 PM
    Campdraftqueen
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    Reviewing your other posts, your mother is making the right decision for you. You may not understand it now, but she was once 14, she's been around the block a few times. She's just looking out for your best interests, whether you agree or not.

    But she doesn't even let me out with my female friends

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