My ex is so cruel I don't know how to handle it anymore.. I don't even know if I bring it on myself.. It's been four years and I still am on a emotional roller coaster ride. He lives out of state and when he comes into see the kids.. He shows me no respect. He dose not have them call me. He is never on the same page as me with any issues regarding the kids.. He over powers every conversation, and when I try to talk he gets pissed leaves and ignores me. I then react by trying to text him like a fool. I actually look like the crazy one because I'm so frazzled.. He then proceeds to not have the kids call or will not respond to me at all. Im so weak and am not strong I'm tired. How can I be strong? Or am I the wrong one?

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Originally Posted by Jontomal

My ex is so cruel I don't know how to handle it anymore.. I don't even know if I bring it on myself.. It's been four years and I still am on a emotional roller coaster ride. He lives out of state and when he comes into see the kids.. He shows me no respect. He dose not have them call me. He is never on the same page as me with any issues regarding the kids.. He over powers every conversation, and when I try to talk he gets pissed leaves and ignores me. I then react by trying to text him like a fool. I actually look like the crazy one because I'm so frazzled.. He then proceeds to not have the kids call or will not respond to me at all. Im so weak and am not strong I'm tired. How can I be strong? Or am I the wrong one?

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Why are you still on an emotional roller coaster? He has no power over you unless/until you give him power.

Stop texting him like a fool.

Go back to Court and require advance notice (if that's the problem) or require that the children contact you on an every-other-day basis (or something).

Take control back.