I have been with a guy for 10 months on and off. He was known as a player and never been with a girl, but I can't tell if I'm being played. We both have cheated. I owned up right away, he kept it from me and I found out from his friends. He says he loves me and how I'm so much different from every other girl. I really do love him and even though I hear things about him I seem to still always side with his "truth". I just am not sure what to do because I seem to always be hurt by the little things he does yet we talk 24/7 and are like twins. He's moving in a year and so we both decided to not actually date considering he knows after I end with a boyfriend I usually never talk to them the same as I did again, but everyone knows from our area we are like best ffriends...