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Am I Pregnant?

Hello! My Name Is Samantha. I Think I am Pregnant! I am Bleeding a dark reddish brown color. It Is really light. I am Concerned! I am Only 14 years old! My Boyfriend Raped me, and now I think I'm pregnant! I am on a birth control pill. I have been for a year. Every Time Me and my ex had sex, we never used a condom, and he always ejaculated in me. I am experiencing symptoms. I have bloating and gas. I am more moody than normal. I have a off and on appitite. I have nausea, high temps, headaches, I'm tired, my bodys extremely sore, and my breasts feel tender at touch. Can Someone Help Me? I'm going to get a pregnancy test at the clinic on Wednesday. Can Someone Help Me? Please!?

If he raped you, have you gone to the police? Told your parents? If not why not?

There's absolutely no way for anyone to diagnose pregnancy online. I'm sorry, but we just can't tell you if you're pregnant, it's not something that's in our power to do.

A pregnancy test can only be performed with urine or blood. That's not something we can access online.

If you were raped you need to tell someone.

I'm afraid that you'll have to wait for the pregnancy test in order to find out if you are pregnant or not. Realize that it could be too early to test, and the pregnancy test may be negative, which doesn't necessarily mean that you're not pregnant, it could mean that it's just too early for an accurate test.

I wish you the best of luck. I do hope that no matter what, you put sex on the back burner. You're not old enough to be a mother, and any time you have sex, even with protection, pregnancy is possible.

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Originally Posted by smoothy

If he raped you, have you gone to the police? Told your parents? If not why not?

I have Told My mom, But She Doesn't Want me to get involved with court and such. She told me to forget it ever happened..

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Originally Posted by Alty

There's absolutely no way for anyone to diagnose pregnancy online. I'm sorry, but we just can't tell you if you're pregnant, it's not something that's in our power to do.

A pregnancy test can only be performed with urine or blood. That's not something we can access online.

If you were raped you need to tell someone.

I'm afraid that you'll have to wait for the pregnancy test in order to find out if you are pregnant or not. Realize that it could be too early to test, and the pregnancy test may be negative, which doesn't necessarily mean that you're not pregnant, it could mean that it's just too early for an accurate test.

I wish you the best of luck. I do hope that no matter what, you put sex on the back burner. You're not old enough to be a mother, and any time you have sex, even with protection, pregnancy is possible.

Thank You! And I Know I'm Too young! And If I Am, my ex told me he wants nothing to do with it.. but my mom said she will support me.

If you told your mother, did she take you to the doctor? You need to see some one right away. When you go to the doctor, ask to speak with the doctor alone. Tell him/her about the rape and that you have told your mother.

Someone needs to know. More importantly, you need to get examined. Please, never associate with this young man again. He is dangerous and not worth your well being.

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Originally Posted by samanthalynn111

I have Told My mom, But She Doesn't Want me to get involved with court and such. she told me to forget it ever happened..

That is so wrong... so very, very wrong. If you "forget it ever happened" its likely to effect you for the rest of your life.

Rape is always wrong, it should be punished.

You have to make that decision... I can't do it for you, However if this goes unpunished... he's going to do it again to someone else...

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Originally Posted by samanthalynn111

Thank You! And I Know I'm Too young! And If I Am, my ex told me he wants nothing to do with it.. but my mom said she will support me.

You're still talking to your ex after he raped you? You need to stay away from this boy. If you are pregnant, and you choose to have this baby, he will have rights to that child, and you can go after him for child support. That is the bad thing about not reporting this rape. If he wants to see this child there is nothing you can do to stop him. If you report the rape and he's found guilty, then no court in the world would let him near this child.

How old is this boy?