Okay so we were 16 when we started dating and dated for 10months. We were 17 when it ended and it was this yr, three months ago to be precise. Its been 3 months and I still want him back so much but idont no what to do :( . We were so so close when we were going out like got on so well, were really comfortable around each other and everything and now we don't even talk really.

He broke it off with the excuss that he just lost feelings, but I have a feeling maybei was being abit needy. Anyway I don't believe he lost feelings because he used to always say so much to me and always tell me how much he loved me and wants to be with me forever and stuff. He even cried when he had to go on a holiday the day before when we were saying bye, as the holiday was a whole month.

I have been trying to be my normal self which is happy and bubbly usually and I love to make other people happy and a smile on their face. I won't lie I have been happy I really have but in the back of my head I'm always thinking about him and wishing he would come back. I read things like when the dumpee moves on is when the dumper comes back. Um another thing is his very shy and quiet which I'm not but we have same interests and al sorts.

The last few days I've been acting a lot like myself loud and happy having fun in front of him , as I see him around school still and will be for the next four weeks, as well as youth. And I'm not sure if I'm just hoping and seeing things but I think he has looked at me like checked what I'm doing when around a fair bit or he could be looking at someone past me. I hung out with him and youth friends yesturday watching a movie it was bit weird the only time we direct spoke was when he asked a question but at youth that night I swear I caught him looking at me I don't no if that means anything but someone please help it would be amazing. I love this boy so much. Every imperfection he has makes him that much more perfect to me I just can't move on as much as I try. I really want him

He says he has lost feelings for you. You need to believe that. It has been 3 months and he has not made any attempt to be with you.
It is time for you to move on.

Im sorry but I feel a little hesitant giving advice only considering your age. I have a 16 year old daughter myself and her focus is on school, family and sports right now. I tell her boys will come and go and believe me they have lol. I understand love and true feelings do exist at your age, my only advice to you considering your boyfriends age ( from my own experience being a teenage boy once ) he doesn't know what he wants right now. I would let him go, focus on yourself and school and enjoy your youth. You have your whole life ahead of you and plenty of time for complicated relationships in the future lol trust me. Take your time. Focus on YOU and school.

It is over, most likely he was really never that serious, guys learn fast what to tell a girl and what they think she likes or wants to hear. Next if you were too "needy" he will not and you will not have changed in just 3 months,

You need to accept it is over, think of dating other people, and move on

Why would he left you if you believe that he didn't loose his feelings?
Only in three months? Im pretty sure that you can move on easier than a 5 years old long relationship. Think of your age. You are still a teen. You will find better and someone who deserves to you. :)

OK so I have deleted my fb about 2 weeks ago or bit more and I have instagram now if any of use no what that is or have it. On instagram you can have a caption thing on your profile.

My ex and my profile are both private so we can't see each others pictures.


His was always different but this morning I went on his and it was exacly like myn and I went through all his friends and no one else has one like that so why did he copy myn..?

What did he say when you asked him?

What does it really matter? Sounds like he likes you.

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Originally Posted by J_9

What did he say when you asked him?

What does it really matter? Sounds like he likes you.

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I haven't asked him why he did it like copied cause I don't no for sure if its copied but it looks like it to me haha and well he broke up with me four months ago well almost four months so ergh confusing I don't get it and well I guess it doesn't matter I'm just really curious why because the last 3 months I've been trying to get him back and I started to give up then I see he like copied me hah

Can you please type in complete words and sentences as the site requires?

don't = didn't
no = know... etc.

haha? What's so funny?

Now I'm confused if you're here to help or critizise my writing, yeah I'm not the best at english but you can still understand it surely but okay as you command.

I haven't asked him why yet because I'm unsure if he did copy because how can you be sure? but due to myn being so similar and the last word being written the same I kind of have the feeling he copied myn a bit and am confused why. Him liking me well... he broke up with me four months ago, well almost four months and well I guess it doesn't matter I'm just really curious why because the last 3 months I've been trying to get him back and I started to give up then I see he like copied me.

Many of us on this site are adults and many of us don't text. We can't understand that language and the site requires complete words and sentences or your questions can be deleted. I'm sure you don't what that right?

myn = mine

In the end, who cares? Why is it that important to you?