Does he sound like a player? Will I get hurt and used?
I like a guy, we have been textin for like 9 months now and within the 9 months he has asked me out, but I wasn't ready so I said no, but he still carried on texting and his texts are always flirty, he always calls me babe, or princess or sexy or beautiful or anything really. I really like him now, and basically I don't do chasin so I'm waiting for him to ask me on a date again. However I'm still a little worried as I have a few things in mind that he's said over the past 9 months that keep haunting me. Firstly the first thing was I have been with 8 girls from work, I want to make it 10 before I leave another thing he said ages ago was something abou sackin a girl off when the sex gets boring. This was waaay back probably about 12 months he said that to me, and back then he probably didn't even see me in the way he does now. But I don't know, obviously I really reaaly do like him and I think about him all the time, I want to be with him and I miss him like mad when I don't see him or he doesn't text (as sometimes he texts before bed) but then I think to myself well even though I have got to know him and seen a different side to him which I like is he still playing a number game? Am I going to end up hurt? Or being used for sex? But then I think well would he still be after me after 9 months after me turning him down several times if he didn't like me? And apparently he always talks about me to others and whenever we are together he always shas time for me, he's always really caring and listens to everythin I say and he always protects me and looks out for me and sticks up for me and I really like him. Please help me? Does he sound like a player?
AND... if I was to talk to him about what he said months and months ago and say to him look what you said keeps hauntin me, did you mean that? Do you reckon he would get annoyed by that? Or is it best to be honest with him?
If you can't tell I have never been in a relationship before!
Thanks guys any help is greatly appreciated!