I meet this women about 3 months ago. We just really clicked as friends We talked about her fella who she only see's once a month. We started getting more and more close and ended sleeping together we have fallen big time in love with each other both of us have said that we have never feelt love like it.

But it was to hard on her to do it any more and said she needed to think who she wanted to be with.

She picked this other guy. I am in a world of I don't know what I have done nothing but cry for 3 days. I feel like she has died that's the best way I can say what the pain feels like.

I just really don't know what to do I don't know where to turn I am in bits can any one please help

You've known her for three months, you don't love her yet. I'm actually extremely scared for you as an individual if, after three motnhs of knowing this girl, can hardly function after she chose the other guy.

Work on yourself buddy. Take the time she's given you to really have a hard look at your independence. Because it needs some work. You need to be able to survive on your own, before you can survive with anyone else.

I have known her for 9 months all in.

I do have independence I live on my own and have for some time.

I never fall in love fast but there is just something about this women I know she is the "ONE"

I just don't know what to do

I keep thinking that I fight for her. Stay as a sex buddy (thats how it started) and make her see that I am the one she should be with.

What do you think?

God dude get ahold of yourself this was a 3 month relationship. The ""ONE""? Think about it this way. Altogether youve met maybe 8,000 people in your life and youve already met The ''ONE"'.

Well guess what theirs another 8 billion people you haven't met in the world. Theirs someone else trust me