Dear all,

Need your help.
I seeing this guy that life 2 hours by flight from my city for a month, during 1 years, we meet for about 6 times. And last time we met, we make love.
Oia, for the first time we met, he said that our relationship is imposible, because of distance and religion. So we only do fwb.
Last April he told me that he have new girlfriend. At that moment I don't trust, I tought he started to love me and scare with commitment, so that time I still chasing him.
But last night, I saw his pic with his girlfriend on instagram,, and really broken heart because of that. So I told him I love him much, but don't want a friendship because I want a commitment relationship with him. But he still insist that our relationship is imposible and he don't want to try. But he still treat me as a friend and even ask me to sleep with him again..
I'm so hurt with his words, but in otherside I love him also.. I don't know what I really want know.
My logic told me to go away from him and move on, but my little heart told me to get him back... I really confuse and don't know what to do... can you give me suggestion?
Thanks :)

I had a boyfriend that lived in Connecticut and we were together for 4 years (on and off). I never knew what he was up to. We would break up and he would have another girl and I was here still thinking about him. Then we would get back together. I would go see him every 2 months for a week or a weekend. I was madly in love with him. But he always had someone by his side and I felt horrible and was really hurt. Even though I was still in love with him, I made up my mind and decided to move on and forget about him, yes, it hurt me to do it but I had to because I didn't want to be taken advantage of. I deleted his number, erased all his pictures and blocked him from Skype and Facebook.

You deserve someone better and that's going to treat you right. To tell you the truth when you find some one online it doesn't really work unless he lives in the same state as you. Long distance relationships hardly work. I hope this helps, Good luck hun.

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I had a boyfriend that lived in Connecticut and we were together for 4 years (on and off). I never knew what he was up to. We would break up and he would have another girl and I was here stil thinking about him. Then we would get back together. I would go see him every 2 months for a week or a weekend. I was madly in love with him. But he always had someone by his side and I felt horrible and was really hurt. Even tho I was still in love with him, I made up my mind and decided to move on and forget about him, yes, it hurt me to do it but I had to because I didnt want to be taken advantage of. I deleted his number, erased all his pictures and blocked him from Skype and Facebook.

You deserve someone better and thats going to treat you right. To tell you the truth when you find some one online it doesnt really work unless he lives in the same state as you. Long distance relationships hardly work. I hope this helps, Good luck hun.

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Thanks...
I'm planning to move there as soon as I got job in there actually.. But seem he'a not love me as much as I love him. And your right... I need to move on.. Forget him for good... Thanks a lot dear