FAQ:We go to the same school, same social circle etc...

Well this girl was showing massively strong signals, but as a shy UN-confident guy I never took any action, she gave me many signals, she even got nervous at times when I walked by close to her, what does it mean if she's nervous? I'm still in summer so.. The problem here is, I don't know if it was a good idea but I tried to contact her over Facebook, she ignored me and the friend request (which was never denied) I know she ignored it because she was updating here stats for the time being. I made some changed, I got very social, and boosted my confident dramatically, and skills with women ;)
So, I took her not responsive over Facebook:
1. She isn't interested anymore, was pretty rude
2. She's playing hard to get and see how far, or if I'll apprach
Anyway Should I approach her, I think it will be very awkward if we have the same class again, or I see her around school.

I am doubting your ''women skills'' A girl will not ignore someone she likes enough to get nervous when their walking by completely for months just to ''play hard to get''. She also won't just block out a friend because she likes someone else.

At this point I am wondering if you could elaborate on these signals?
You may have been mistaken

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Originally Posted by Gamed

I am doubting your ''women skills'' A girl will not ignore someone she likes enough to get nervous when their walking by completely for months just to ''play hard to get''. She also wont just block out a friend because she likes someone else.

At this point I am wondering if you could elaborate on these signals?
You may have been mistaken

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I will clarify good sir and I am certain I have not misinterpreted any signals.

1. One time, I was chilling by myself by the classroom door waiting for the bell to ring, and she walks up to me like if she was going to say something I tried saying "hi" and tried making eye contact, but she looked down and then moved her eyes in a sweeping motion across the floor.

2. I was in lunch before and I caught her "spying" one me, I looked backed and stared back we locked eyes at each other for a good couple seconds.

3. Before class ends, I usually stand by the door waiting by the bell. She would always try to stand next to me, and would play with her phone and fix her hair, usually it was just the two of us standing, I never grew the balls to say anything there.

4. I was talking to one of buds, and she bumps my elbow on purpose , at the time the only line I can throw was "Srry, I didn't notice you there"

Based on my experience, understanding and the environment these can be attributed at indicators of interest.

Its probably just flirting. I know 50 girls that will bump into me in the hallway for fun. Or stand near me to strike up conversation.

I don't know dude your best bet is go for it and if you were right your confidence will sky rocket and you'll have her.

But you can't live in a world of ""I should have went for her''
Or ''I could have got her''

That's a world filled with regret and you never want to wonder what could have been.

She could have just been flirting and it means nothing or she could have been attracted to you.
Approach her and see. That is the only way you will know.

All right, thanks for the advice. I guess I'll approach as soon as I get the opportunity, I'm a little bumped out why she would ignore me I guess I shot her back for not taking the initiative. As soon as I see her again I'll approach, I guess it's really the only way to find out truly.

Thanks again,

Ginger Puffs!