We have been together for 3,5 years and have been staying together in the same apartment for the past 3years. Iniatialy we were both working but I was taking care of business financially. After 2 years she quit her job and became dependent on me for 8 months, she got a new job a month ago, made a new circle of friends both male and female and now she says she wants to move out. Should I let her go? Or is this the end of what we built for the past 3,5 years? I deeply love her and don't know what to do...

Listen.. my boyfriend just moved out to.. it hurts... I know.. I can't explain everything but.. it seems like she wants to be more independent and be more outgoing and free.. I really think that you guys can still be together but it obviously won't be the same.. after 3 years I don't see the point in going backwards in a loving relationship.. u should have a nice dinner with her somewhere and talk to her.. find out what's really going on.. and be ready for what ever answer she gives u.. u seem like a nice gut.. don't worry.. love is strong and if its meant to be it will stay...

Let her go? What are you going to do, chain her to the bed ?

You have no real choice, if she is not willing to communicate and/or go to counseling, not much left to do, except go out and get her some boxes.

If she is still there, does she want to talk and try to change some things going on ?

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Originally Posted by nikkisweet2323

Listen..my boyfriend just moved out to..it hurts...I know..I can't explain everything but..it seems like she wants to be more independant and be more outgoing and free..I really think that you guys can still be together but it obviously won't be the same..after 3 years I dont see the point in going backwards in a loving relationship..u should have a nice dinner with her somewhere and talk to her..find out what's really going on..and be ready for what ever answer she gives u..u seem like a nice gut..don't worry..love is strong and if its meant to be it will stay......

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listen if this ends.. it only means gods making room for that special one to come by.. if she's not that special one I'm saying..