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  • Aug 22, 2012, 06:15 PM
    Fathertime1233
    Can I have restrictions on who my son can be around while he is with his mother?
    I have a 10 month old child. The mother and I have been split up for around 7 months now. She's dating a convicted felon and is currently living with him. I have my son 6 nights a week, plus my two off days. Can I have restrictions placed on who he can be around while in her care? Such as not having him around convicted felons? I am concerned about the safety of my child, not someone trying to play daddy. His criminal record consists of theft, vandalism, and selling drugs.
  • Aug 22, 2012, 06:16 PM
    smoothy
    The only people that can put restrictions or conditions on either parent... is family court.

    If you have a concern... that would be the venue you want... and what they decide will have the force of law behind it.
  • Aug 22, 2012, 06:22 PM
    Fathertime1233
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    The only people that can put restrictions or conditions on either parent ...is family court.

    If you have a concern...that would be the venue you want....and what they decide will have the force of law behind it.

    We are currently in family court, is that something I can ask for? Or will that be something the judge has to just decide on. My lawyer isn't being very talkative when it comes to it, I think I may have chose the wrong one. The first appearance resulted in just a reschedule for her time to hire counsel.
  • Aug 22, 2012, 06:31 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    You may ask for it, but normally unless you can prove the other person is a danger, most likely not.
  • Aug 22, 2012, 06:42 PM
    Fathertime1233
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    You may ask for it, but normally unless you can prove the other person is a danger, most likely not.

    So basically as long as I can't prove a danger to my sons safety there's nothing I can? What about overnight stays of the opposite sex?
  • Aug 23, 2012, 03:35 AM
    ScottGem
    You can ask, it will be up to the court to determine whether there is a real danger. At 10 months, your child won't understand overnight stays of the opposite sex.

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