All right, So I've liked this guy for a long time. It's been about, what, 4 years? Three of those years I've spent Trying so hard to get over him. But the Problem is, Every time I try, He ends up flirting or getting Jealous of any other guy I talk to. I literally Cannot bring another guy to a party without him questioning him, or giving him weird looks. So yes I'm angry because my body just cares so much about him, But the main concern I have, is he is so in love with another girl. He acts different around her, he's always smiling around her, and quite frankly he seems a lot more happier around her. They've hung out, and he's also been attached to her for two years. So should I just drop him, is he leading me on or does he actually still like me? I'm so confused.

This guy is toying with you, manipulating you. If he really liked you, he would be with you.
Leave him alone.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

This guy is toying with you, manipulating you. If he really liked you, he would be with you.
Leave him alone.

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So you're saying he likes the other girl then?

He does not like you enough to be with you. He likes the other girl.

I figured. Also, I didn't really make this clear, but they Aren't dating. She has a boyfriend :|

He may like her, but the point is he would be with you if he wanted to be.
How old are the two of you.
You should tell him to stop interfering in your life.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

He may like her, but the point is he would be with you if he wanted to be.
How old are the two of you.
You should tell him to stop interfering in your life.

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Hes turning 17 soon I guess, I'm 17 turning 18 in June. She's either 16 or 15 I don't remember :| For me, It's incredibly hard to talk to him, or try to explain anything. We recently agreed that we were going to be friends. I seriously doubt it'll work.

Then leave him alone. Ignore him. When he butts in your business, just ignore him. Don't let him see you react to anything he does.

I'll try that, Thanks!