Ask Me Help Desk - How do you know if he wants to kiss you

How do you know if he wants to kiss you

Ok so my boyfriend always tells me he loves me and stuff while we're texting and in person. I've tried giving him signs like I told him about me walking on my older brother and girlfriend making out and telling him that my puppy kissed me. Am I giving the right signs? He might not be ready but we have been going out for about 5 months. His brother and my friend were going out and they kissed all the time and it was his younger brother! Anyway what should I do?

How old are you both?

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Originally Posted by smoothy

How old are you both?

We're going into seventh and we have both kissed someone else before but I'm not doing the same thing I did then

If he wants to kiss you... and doesn't then he's a wuss.

If he wants to kiss you he will. Why do you care so much? You're in the seventh grade, you shouldn't even be dating and kissing boys anyway. Your parents know you want to lock lips with boys yet?

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Originally Posted by C0bra_M3nace

If he wants to kiss you he will. Why do you care so much? You're in the seventh grade, you shouldn't even be dating and kissing boys anyways. Your parents know you want to locklips with boys yet?

yes

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Originally Posted by Dragonakira4801

yes

Well if your parents are okay with it, then to answer your question. He'll kiss you when he kisses you, just be patient.

Telling someone that your puppy kisses you is a hint that you want to be kissed? How does that work?

It's amazing how many adults comment on these in ways that they shouldn't really talk to young teens. It's one thing if they're doing illegal things or other things that I won't be going into detail over, but if they're talking about having a boyfriend or kissing, they don't want to be embarrassed about it, if you don't treat them like little kids, sometimes they don't feel the need to act like such adults. It's reverse pschology in a way, or at least that's how I'd describe it.

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Originally Posted by BrookeK16

It's amazing how many adults comment on these in ways that they shouldn't really talk to young teens. It's one thing if they're doing illegal things or other things that I won't be going into detail over, but if they're talking about having a boyfriend or kissing, they don't want to be embarrassed about it, if you don't treat them like little kids, sometimes they don't feel the need to act like such adults. It's reverse pschology in a way, or at least that's how I'd describe it.

So what's your advice to the poster?

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Originally Posted by Alty

Telling someone that your puppy kisses you is a hint that you want to be kissed? How does that work?

Idk I just thought it might work but I won't see him till Monday so I don't know if it worked or not so

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Originally Posted by BrookeK16

It's amazing how many adults comment on these in ways that they shouldn't really talk to young teens. It's one thing if they're doing illegal things or other things that I won't be going into detail over, but if they're talking about having a boyfriend or kissing, they don't want to be embarrassed about it, if you don't treat them like little kids, sometimes they don't feel the need to act like such adults. It's reverse pschology in a way, or at least that's how I'd describe it.

That's cute. Wait until you're a parent of some teenagers. How would you feel if you didn't want your 14 year old running around kissing and people on this site encouraged your kid to do so. We're giving advice to other peoples children so we need answer like their parents, whether it's holding hands, kissing or having sex.

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Originally Posted by BrookeK16

It's amazing how many adults comment on these in ways that they shouldn't really talk to young teens. It's one thing if they're doing illegal things or other things that I won't be going into detail over, but if they're talking about having a boyfriend or kissing, they don't want to be embarrassed about it, if you don't treat them like little kids, sometimes they don't feel the need to act like such adults. It's reverse pschology in a way, or at least that's how I'd describe it.

Its amazing how many kids think they are entitled to do anything they want because they want to do it.

All the proof you need of what's wrong woth that line of thought is looking at the volumes of minor teens that get pregnant each year... or the numbers of them that contract STD's of any type. Heck, something like 28% of minors under 18 are infected by the HPV virus. Those statistics are easy to Google up.

And it all starts with kissing when you are too young to do so.

See... we adults have something you don't have yet... and that's experience... the real world is not this mythical thing most kids think it is... in reality its actually quite harsh, and there are many, many chances to make serious mistakes that will ruin your future... or even end it.

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Originally Posted by smoothy

Its amazing how many kids think they are entitled to do anything they want because they want to do it.

All the proof you need of whats wrong woth that line of thought is looking at the volumes of minor teens that get pregnant each year...or the numbers of them that contract STD's of any type. Heck, something like 28% of minors under 18 are infected by the HPV virus. Those statistics are easy to google up.

And it all starts with kissing when you are too young to do so.

See...we adults have something you don't have yet....and thats experience...the real world is not this mythical thing most kids think it is...in reality its actually quite harsh, and there are many, many chances to make serious mistakes that will ruin your future...or even end it.

Oops! You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to smoothy again.

**Applauds**

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Originally Posted by BrookeK16

It's amazing how many adults comment on these in ways that they shouldn't really talk to young teens. It's one thing if they're doing illegal things or other things that I won't be going into detail over, but if they're talking about having a boyfriend or kissing, they don't want to be embarrassed about it, if you don't treat them like little kids, sometimes they don't feel the need to act like such adults. It's reverse pschology in a way, or at least that's how I'd describe it.

A lot of us on these threads are parents. I doubt you are.

I see post after post of yours, criticizing the respected, long-time users of this site. You are making a very bad first, second and possibly third impression. I see criticism of other people who answered - but apparently you don't have any ideas at all.

If the person is young enough not to know the signs that someone wants to kiss him/her the parent still needs to have input.

No, what's amazing is your 16-year old attitude. I suspect this is a very "entitled" teen, obviously disrespectful.

EDIT: We should probably be sympathetic - this person apparently has a pretty tough life, being beautiful and privileged and all: "I agree with what Fr_Chuck said. I'm 17 and a girl, and (not trying to sound at all conceited, I promise) I have to deal with guys who want to talk to me because of the car I drive, or the money my family has, or my looks." https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...ce-695560.html

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Just go to him... Call him on his name and say that you need him a lot and want a hug. If he is ready to hug you then its your turn to kiss him. Don't be upset too much. Its so simple and easy.