Hello my name is La Toya about a month ago me and my boyfriend of 2yrs broke up because I found out that he was seeing another girl. I called the girl and she said that they never had sex or anything like that it just seems as if when he comes over he just gets money from her but they where suppose to be in a relationship, so when I asked him he told me the same thing she said , so I took him back because he did not have sex with her , and under the condition he never see;s her again everything was cool until a week later when I found out that he was talking to another girl who he was suppose to be in a committed relationship with for a year she and he admitted to having sex. So we broke up , the only thing is that last week I found out I was pregnant and I still love this guy with all my hurt, and I don't want my child to grow up in a brokin home, he ask me would I take him back and he will never ever cheat on me again but I am not sure what should I do :o :o

Remember this :-

Cheating doesn't only mean when you have sex with someone other than your partner.
There is also physcological cheating...

This man is not one to trust.

Now that you are pregnant you can still inolve him in the bringing up of your child as a father but not as your partner.

Im sorry to say but I believe he could hurt you again in the long run.

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Originally Posted by latizzle18

hello my name is La Toya about a month ago me and my boyfriend of 2yrs broke up because i found out that he was seeing another girl. i called the girl and she said that they never had sex or anything like that it just seems as if when he comes over he just gets money from her but they where suppose to be in a relationship, so when i asked him he told me the same thing she said , so i took him back because he did not have sex with her , and under the condition he never see;s her again everything was cool until a week later when i found out that he was talking to another girl who he was suppose to be in a commited relationship with for a year she and he admitted to having sex. so we broke up , the only thing is that last week i found out i was pregnant and i still love this guy with all my hurt, and i don't want my child to grow up in a brokin home, he ask me would i take him back and he will never ever cheat on me again but I am not sure what should i do :o :o

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Okay thank you I understand were you are coming from

Focus on your child but a relationship with the father is something else all together. You will not be happy with a liar and a cheat, father though he will be. Let him support his child but thats it.

Yes that's exactly what I was trying to say, but Tal said it better :)