My mom and dad got married at 18, had me at 22, my sister at 23, and got divorced soon after that. Ever since I can remember, my dad has verbally abused me, callling me fat, ugly, etc. And I would come home and tell my mom and she would comfortt me. Me, her, and my sister always had a great relationship. We struggled money-wise, cause my mom never went to college, so it's hard for her to find a god job with only a high school diploma. But about a week ago, she found out about my Twitter and read my tweets. Yes, they had curse words and guys would hit on me, but I didn't respond to them. Now she won't stop call me a up, a skank, a slut, a and all this stuff. Every time she opens her mouth to me, it's just to cuss me out and to verbally abuse me. She JUST called me from work and said I was a "nasty skank". She does this constantly and randomly. A few months ago shhe found out my siister sent someone nudes, and acted like it was a big deal, but she sees me tweeting th F word and I'M the nasty skank? She hates me, I know she does. But I dn't know what to do. I'm only sixteen but I want to move out asap but I don't have any relatives I could move in with. Help, please.

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Originally Posted by 16andHopeless

My mom and dad got married at 18, had me at 22, my sister at 23, and got divorced soon after that. Ever since I can remember, my dad has verbally abused me, callling me fat, ugly, etc. And I would come home and tell my mom and she would comfortt me. Me, her, and my sister always had a great relationship. We struggled money-wise, cause my mom never went to college, so it's hard for her to find a god job with only a high school diploma. But about a week ago, she found out about my Twitter and read my tweets. Yes, they had curse words and guys would hit on me, but I didn't respond to them. Now she wont stop call me a up, a skank, a slut, a and all this stuff. Everytime she opens her mouth to me, it's just to cuss me out and to verbally abuse me. She JUST called me from work and said I was a "nasty skank". She does this constantly and randomly. A few months ago shhe found out my siister sent someone nudes, and acted like it was a big deal, but she sees me tweeting th F word and I'M the nasty skank? She hates me, I know she does. But I dn't know what to do. I'm only sixteen but I want to move out asap but I don't have any relatives I could move in with. Help, please.

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Sorry, but sending someone nude photos of yourself is, at best, very bad judgment. Your mother acted like that was a big deal? Probably because it is a big deal.

I have 5 stepchildren I've helped raised. I don't know that I'd be calling you names. I do know I'd be very disappointed with you.

It sounds like you have nowhere to go, and no one here would have any suggestions other than, if the situation is abusive, calling Child Protective Services and asking to be placed in foster care.

I am guessing your father's residence is not an option.

You admit that your mother has had struggles in her life. I would hope my child would attempt to make my life easier, not more difficult.

When you act irresponsibly there are repercussions. Is your mother over the top? Possibly. Maybe she's concerned that what you post (and twitter and anything else) will follow you for the rest of your life - and she doesn't want you to make mistakes she made.

Sorry, no sympathy here.