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  • Aug 20, 2012, 02:19 AM
    OscarOlga
    Wife of friend
    I think I´m in love with a married woman. Not able to keep her away of my mind. Any solution please
    No its not love, I feel extra hot about her.
  • Aug 20, 2012, 04:05 AM
    C0bra_M3nace
    She's off limits. Unless she suddenly ends her marriage then that's just a fantasy. You would do well to keep it that way.
  • Aug 20, 2012, 04:33 AM
    joypulv
    And I wish I could steal a 60' sailboat and travel the world for 2 years.
    Get over yourself, and control yourself, as we all have to do, day in and day out. Get busy. Help some orphans or pound animals or something, or go serve meals in a shelter. Get a hobby. Take a course. Ask someone out on a date. Ask 3 buddies to go camping or on a trip to Europe. Unless you live there already, then go somewhere else.
  • Aug 20, 2012, 07:09 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by OscarOlga View Post
    i think i´m in love with a married woman. not able to keep her away of my mind. any solution pls
    no its not love, i feel extra hot about her.


    I don't think you know what you want - you start by saying you're in love with a married woman. Then you change to "no, it's not love."

    Which is it?

    She's married - she's out of bounds to you. I also notice you post about Islam. Isn't this a religious problem for you?
  • Aug 21, 2012, 01:37 AM
    OscarOlga
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    I don't think you know what you want - you start out by saying you're in love with a married woman. Then you change to "no, it's not love."

    Which is it?

    She's married - she's out of bounds to you. I also notice you post about Islam. Isn't this a religious problem for you?

    Yep, I´m confused. Everyone said right, its out of bound. Its wrong.
    Not at all a religious problem. Its out of humanity and any religion doesn´t accept it.
    I understand it all, but going to the road of self destruction.
    Anyway guys thanks for your support. I need some harsh curses to keep it away.
  • Aug 21, 2012, 04:15 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    More of course the husband may find out and kill you or something also.

    But you break off your friendship if you can't control your emotions and stop contact with them.
  • Aug 21, 2012, 05:26 AM
    OscarOlga
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    More of course the husband may find out and kill you or something also.

    But you break off your friendship if you can't control your emotions and stop contact with them.

    Ya I´ve already stop contacted them. My fault is just fantasize, otherwise I´ve done nothing wrong to them, or her.

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