Boyfriend smokes blunts, hang with friends instead of you and demands a break tells you he loves you and yet never calls to make things work claims that he is hurt you and believes money will help solve the problem sense he has no job.

My questions is. What are you still doing with him? Drop this boy and find a man.

Right - this is no boyfriend by any definition.
I always wonder where all the jobless people who smoke weed get their money?
You don't want to be around when he gets caught for dealing or stealing.

I just want to clarify something; I am not down on weed. If you're a peaceful positive person who likes a spliff, fine. If you're a paranoid thug who likes a spliff, sort your life out. You haven't posted many details but it just sounds like your boyfriend isn't fussed. Move on, find someone who is enthusiastic about you.