Fiancée texting "old neighborhood friend"
I ve been with my girlfriend for 5 yrs. Recent after I proposed, she inadvertently showed me a pic of single male "old friend" from her home town, on her phone. She lied about who he was. Said it was a cousin from previous marriage . I then looked at phone records and found she had been texting ( 1000 plus texts and pics) over the past 3 months. Looking at the records she was texting early morning, sometimes all day, consecutive days, and whle we were in bed together . She swears she loves me, she has no interest in "old friend ", tells me they just talked about the past. She swears she has had no physical contact, and NO sexual interest in this other guy. She cannot tell any specifics of conversations, simply that they talked about sunsets/ growing up together/ sisters passing/ chit chat . I am confused , angry and embarrassed. She insist that I need to get over it and deal with it. She insist there was never any inappropriate text.
